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best-orgasms-casual-or-committed-relationshipDear Emily,

About 5 years ago, I had a casual sex relationship with a man and it was the best sex I’ve ever had. We went on a few dates, but there was no intellectual connection. Fast forward to now: I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and recently texted my old booty-call asking if he is single. Now, I know we don’t have a connection, we will never have a relationship and we’ve both said we’re over the casual sex thing. However, I haven’t been physically satisfied for over five years with anyone except for him.

So my question is: what are the rules here? Will I be using him if I just want sex? I know he probably wouldn’t have a problem with it, but if we are both trying to find something “real”, is this all a waste of time?

Much Love,
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article-2535282-1A7A1A2400000578-799_306x465In case you missed it, there has been a noticeable trend in the world of sex and relationships: People are having more sex and less relationships.

While this may not hold true for all, you can’t deny that the hookup culture truly is booming. Rather than jumping from one relationship to another, more and more singles are keeping their options open and their commitments minimal. When done right and done responsibly, this can be a great way to explore your sexuality and figure out what you like, both in the bedroom and in a partner… If you can figure out how to navigate the murky waters of no-strings-attached sex. Continue Reading

IMG_7424In this show, Emily and Menace are here to answer of all your sex and relationship questions! Today’s email topics include problems with porn, friend with benefits, mutual masturbation and a case of premature (ejaculation) escalation. Plus, Emily shares some free swingin’ sex in the news and drops some serious vagina knowledge that you NEED to know.

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Menace_p1In this week’s podcast Emily is back in the studio with, you guessed it, Menace! In this hilarious episode Emily and Menace discuss the real story behind Hustler stores, glass dildos, and answer listeners’ emails that may shock even the most avid listeners!

We’ve spent a lot of time talking about going above and beyond in your relationship. Any relationship takes work – especially in the bedroom – which is why it is so important to embrace and explore your own sexuality with no shame or regrets. If your man can’t handle your toys, he doesn’t deserve you! Emily gives advice for ways to help your guy feel more comfortable about using toys (Hello Jimmy Jane Form 2!) which can re-ignite your sex life and provide an amazing experience for both you AND your partner. Continue Reading


Zemanta Related Posts ThumbnailIn the latest podcast Emily and Menace are talking all about pushing the boundaries of your relationship. Whether or not you’re wondering if your friends-with-benefits situation will ever become something more, questioning if you should introduce your true love to swinging, or concerned about how to acquaint a new partner with your favorite sex toy- this show is for you. Emily is here to give you her tried and true advice!

Looking for a surefire way to escape the friendzone, want to know how to escape a dead end relationship? Curious about what kind of accessories you’ll need to handle a partner that squirts? This podcast has it all. Plus, Menace and Emily talk about their newfound love for the beach and debate a character from their past- “Captain Erotica.”

Is anal the new blowjob? Is squirting the new anal? Find out on the latest episode of Sex With Emily! Continue Reading


Emily’s guest tonight is comedian Erik Griffin from Comedy Central’s show Workaholics. Emily and Erik talk about the reality of digital dating today. They discuss the art of flirting on the Tinder dating app, sex myths, mismatched libidos and women that “collect men like comic books.” They also debate whether or not sex is the most important thing in a relationship. Continue Reading


A show on breast play, friends with benefits, dirty talk, and threesomes— when they work out and when they don’t. Emily answers listener’s questions: How long should you make out before going for the breasts? How long can you play with her breasts before it gets creepy? Do friends with benefits ever work?  How do I talk dirty without offending her? And last but not least, can I have a threesome without completely destroying my relationship?… Continue Reading


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