How To Feel Sexually Confident (At Any Size)

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Sexual confidence is a hard mark to hit for women, whether you’re a size zero or a size fourteen. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and act a certain way but sexiness is something that starts from inside. It isn’t something that anyone else can give you.

Working at Sex With Emily, there is a constant stream of women – smart, beautiful and talented – who want to know how to feel sexier. The surprising part is that they come from women of all shapes and sizes. We all want to feel like the sexiest lady in the room, and when we don’t, it makes the whole act of having sex feel like faking it. We start to doubt ourselves and our relationships.

In my formative years, when my body made the jump from cute girl to chubby young woman, body confidence itself was a cruel joke. Even after I graduated high school and shed the weight, I never got over that feeling of wanting to hide my body and not feeling sexy in my own skin. No amount of sex or compliments could help me shake it. In fact, I still battle it to this day, and it weighs heavily on my relationship and my sex life. Constantly wondering “Does he find me attractive?” or “Can I really wear this?” or the ever-popular mid-sex thought:  “Do I really look sexy from this angle?” are all thoughts that will torpedo your sex drive if you let them.

Good Vibrations – a sex-positive company that specializes in woman-focused, high quality sex toys – launched a campaign called “Sexy At Every Size”. Their aim was to help women everywhere celebrate body-positivity and sexual empowerment for all body types, which I found to be really inspiring.

So in the spirit of sexiness at every size, here are some tips to help you cultivate that much-needed sexual confidence and learn to love the skin you’re in.

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Emily Talks Clitoris Vibrators at the International Lingerie Show


Emily visits the International Lingerie Show in Los Vegas to discover the newest up and coming products for adults. Toy buyer from Good Vibrations, Coyote Days, helps Emily break down the best clitoris vibrators on the market and how you can use them.

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Sex Toy Testers Tell All!

BACI This week’s Podcast is chock full of sexual information, all aimed to improve your sex life and make you feel good! Emily’s special guest, Coyote the woman BEHIND the sex toys, and is head of purchasing for GoodVibes.com, which pretty much makes her the expert!

In this episode, Coyote and Emily talk sex toys of all shapes and sizes! Want to know what toys are best for singles, couples, anal, g-spot, waterproof, etc? These ladies have the answers.

Coyote uses her expert knowledge to guide newcomers through choosing their first sex toy. She and Emily give advice for a married listener who wants to introduce sex toys into the bedroom, and delve into the wonderful world of lube!

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Buy a Vibrator, Support The National Breast Cancer Coalition

Think Pink This October, Good Vibrations is partnering with key vibrator manufacturers to raise funds for the National Breast Cancer Coalition (NBCC). Vibrator connoisseurs are inspired to “Think Outside The Pink,” by buying these vibrators in pink or the color of your choice. 10% of the proceeds go directly to the NBCC. You also have the option of giving a donation to the NBCC upon any purchase. Your purchases and donations help get the NBCC closer to finding a cure to Breast Cancer.

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My First

I remember my first. I was 21-years-old and had just moved from Michigan to San Francisco, and had never encountered a store like Good Vibrations

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Orgasmic Art

Art is a visualized orgasm. Especially if the piece of art is a painted, feathered, or a mustache’d vibratorGood Vibrations celebrated its thirty-six year anniversary by inviting the public to turn simple vibrators into electrifying pieces of art. 

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Unknown Pleasures

I never used to prioritize my own pleasure during sex. Of course there were those few gods of oral sex who knew exactly how to flick their tongue to make me come. But mostly I was having mediocre sex without any clitoral stimulation.  I never expected to orgasm because my main concern was getting him off.

But then I got a vibrator. I went to Good Vibrations, a sex positive store that celebrates female pleasure.

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Little Help From A Friend

So many vibrators, so little time. A huge perk of my job is to test vibrators. I’m a sex toy aficionado if I do say so myself. I get a lot of emails asking me about my favorite toys out there. Well, now you can check them out  here and here.

Never owned a sex toy? Want to know what kind you should buy? Email me: feedback@sexwithemily.com and I’ll do my best to make a recommendation. Let me know what you’re looking for and I’ll make it happen.  You’re welcome :)

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Emily

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The Recession’s Lesson: Invest in Sex Toys

While the Great Recession may primarily be remembered as the worst time in human record to graduate from college, buy a home, be remotely middle class, or impulsively wager your manhood on the continued strength of the Greek economy, those in the know will someday fondly recall this interminable era as the unprecedented Age of The Sex Toy.

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