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Dear Emily,

I like to consider myself a fairly sexually educated woman, but I have NO idea what to do when it comes to being on top during sex.

The few times I have tried it, I felt so awkward that it ended up killing the mood.

Now I’m worried that my inexperience will be obvious to my next partner…

Are there any tips you can give me to help me get better at girl-on-top?

Thanks,

Angie.

 

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Dear Emily,

First off, I learn so much from your podcasts, thank you!

I am 36 and recently separated from a 16-year relationship.

After waiting eight months, I decided I was ready to start dating again.

A few colleagues of mine recommended some dating apps, so I checked them out. I went on two Tindr dates and they went horribly.

Then I gave it one last shot and started talking to a guy six years older than me. We have been talking for two weeks but haven’t met in person yet. So far, our connection has been great!

So here’s my question for you: Is there a certain timeline to meet this guy and move forward from there? What do you suggest when it comes to going from cyber- and phone-chatting to meeting IRL?

Thank you,

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Dear Emily,

I live in San Francisco and although I’m only 24, I haven’t had sex in over a year, and now I’m beginning to date a new guy who is great.

I’ve never been nervous to be intimate with a man before, but now every time we get close I get super awkward. 

I feel like I’m not sure how to “be” with anyone anymore, and I’m getting in my head about it. Please help! Continue Reading

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With the 4th of July upon us, our minds turn to BBQs, fireworks, and independence. 

However, there is one type of independence whose name is rarely spoken.

One that lives in the shade of a willow tree by the river where you had your first kiss. Hides under the blankets when you’re trying to masturbate before work, quietly so your roommates don’t hear.

It lurks in the climax triggered by a partner or your go-to sex toy. Its name is Sexual Independence.  But how do you claim this sexual freedom? We find out… 

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Dear Emily,

I’m a big fan of masturbation.

It’s something I’ve done since I was a teenager, and feel like I’ve always had a pretty healthy outlook on what it brings to both the self-care and partnered sex arenas.

Fantasy, of course, often goes along with it. But for the past couple of months, I’ve had one particular thought that I can’t get off my mind. Much less, have been able to figure out…

Is it normal to want to eat your own ejaculate?

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Usually, personality types are an ignored aspect of romantic relationships.

It’s common to think that in an ideal world, all partners in a relationship would have similar personality types.

The thinking being that similar personality types will make for a compatible and harmonious relationship. However, that’s a very limited and often inaccurate view.

The truth is that any personality types can be compatible, no matter how different. In order to be successful though, some tools are required. Here is a crash course.

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There’s a lot to get hung up on when traversing the world of sex.

However, if there’s one thing that takes the cake, it’s how to navigate the mystery of mismatched libidos.

In addition to a head, heart, and opinion about the Game of Thrones series finale—everyone has a sex drive.

 

Some are naturally high, some are low, but either way, it’s important to know there’s a lot that affects and goes into managing it.

To help get to the bottom of this and more, we’re happy to present a mashup of our favorite blogs and podcasts that can help guide you on the journey.

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Today we explore the common ‘bad relationship patterns and help you break them once and for all.

Every time we break up, we always vow to never make the same mistakes again and never to date that same kind of person.

But once the next breakup comes around, we realize we’ve done exactly that, and fallen heedlessly into a destructive pattern.

Getting caught in a pattern is exhausting. Not only because you blame yourself for your unhappiness, but because it makes rebounding more difficult.

Forging connections with new people can feel pointless and bleak, a huge task to overcome for little gain.

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