Greatest bedroom hits: We’ve all got em’. They’re those moves you’ve got down to a science; the ones you learned early in your sexual career and have perfected over time.
Once you settle into a long term relationship, sex becomes a whole compilation of “go-to” moves. You know what spots to hit and where to hit them, you’ve got your positions down pat. It makes sex easy—effortless, actually!
But the longer you’re with your partner, the more likely you are to end up lodged in an unintended sexual stalemate. The idea of revamping your sex life can be a little overwhelming, depending on just how stuck in a rut you and your partner are.
When it comes to giving your sex life a spring cleaning, don’t feel like you have to become a completely different person in the bedroom; remember they’re with you for a reason! There’s comfort in the familiar. But just because it ain’t broke doesn’t mean it couldn’t be tweaked a little bit here and there, in order to become even better.
Have you ever heard the saying “You don’t buy the car without taking it for a test drive”? Most of the time, this age old adage is used in favor of premarital sex… An important topic for another day, no doubt.
In this moment, however, I’m applying it to living with a significant other—A journey I recently embarked upon. And let me tell you, if I didn’t believe in the car theory pre-cohabitation, I certainly do now. Continue Reading
I currently live with my boyfriend of five years, whom I love so much. Recently, we completely stopped having sex for almost a year because we were so busy starting our careers. We realized this was a big problem and have been working on ways to improve it, mostly by planning out times to have sex. It’s going well, we’re having sex more often, but now it feels like there’s no spontaneity left. What are some ways we can fix this and bring the excitement back?
Let me preface this by saying, good for you, J! It’s great that you and your partner were able to recognize the problem in the bedroom and are now working to make sex a priority. It might not feel like the stuff of romance novels—“Today’s To-Do List: Exercise, cook dinner, fold laundry, have sex”—but the good news is, you’re on the right track! Continue Reading
Today’s show is dedicated to improving your sexual health in the new year! Emily lists her top 5 sexual health goals and explains how to put them into practice in your everyday life! She and Anderson also go over a study about reducing the risk of prostate cancer and tackle emails about position problems, date ideas and lengthy refractory periods.
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Marriage: The ultimate goal to some but attached to the idea is a myriad of negative sex stigmas. Yet, we go the distance, push ourselves, our relationships and land the comfort and unity of the one that swept you off your feet. Marriage is a beautiful ceremony full of timeless heartfelt traditions and all of that beauty doesn’t have to end at the reception. With some effort, the longevity of your union will only further foster your relationship. Strengthen the sex in your marriage with these simple tips.
De-Stress for Better Sex
- Stress is one of the biggest killers of women’s sex drive. So many women are walking around under the storm cloud of our “to do list” – the laundry, the dog and the report for work. Toss in the worries about not having enough sex and it’s like a one-woman monsoon. When it’s time for bed, it’s raining stress all over your sex life which is not the best aphrodisiac.
In today’s show Emily sits down with Menace to answer your most pressing sex and relationship questions sent to firstname.lastname@example.org including: what to do in a long distance relationship when your partner refuses to send sexy texts, have Skype sex, or engage in dirty talk; How to make your wife feel beautiful and why this is crucial for long lasting, amazing sex.
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It’s no surprise that the Internet isn’t only used for obtaining information. At one point or another we all find ourselves guilty of investigating various forms of voyeurism, fetish exploration, and interactive “home movies.” Since the dawn of the World Wide Web the porn industry has struggled to keep up with excessive illegal downloads and bored consumers who need a quick fix. However, online video messengers such as Skype offer users an exciting option to generate their own video fantasies.
What’s the best sex advice I’ve received? How many dates should you go on before having sex? Does size matter? How do you keep things sexy in long-term relationships? What should and shouldn’t you do after sex ? Where I’ll never do it and what I’ll never get in bed without. Watch my video interview with MSN here (or below). Continue Reading