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alternative medley blog sex with emilyAlternative August may have come and gone, but that doesn’t mean we can’t relish in convention-challenging relationships year-round!

As with most aspects of sexuality, there isn’t just one way it can be done. Whatever level of alt you ‘re at,  alternative flair can be worked into almost any couple’s dynamic.

So to help , here are some of our favorite blogs and podcasts that break down the basics of relationships with an alt twist.

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It’s no secret that sex drives and desire ebb and flow throughout our lifetime – sometimes it’s up and sometimes it’s down.
Other times, we think it’s down, when really, we didn’t realize what drove our desire in the first place. Maybe it was there all along and we didn’t know it.
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how she realized her desire in her Down to There blog…

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When you think of the phrase “coming out” most people think about sexual orientation, but what if you were coming out about being non-monogamous?
How would you tell your family or friends? How would they react? These types of relationships are still largely misunderstood, so how could you pinpoint your decision? 
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her coming out experience in her Down to There blog…

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Your first experience at a clothing-optional resort is going to be a tad awkward – you’re going to be naked in front of a bunch of strangers.
But what if you went to one, and realized there was a bit more hanging out than you expected? 
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her first unexpected experience at a resort for the “lifestyle” in her Down to There blog…

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When it comes to dominance and submission in the bedroom, most people think of one person taking the lead while the other does what he/she is told. But is that what it always looks like?
There are so many different scenarios to play around with – from service-oriented to pain-focused to… financial?
It’s all about finding the kind that lights a fire in your loins, so to speak (if that’s what you’re determined to do). 
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how when learning to like to be dominated, it was objectification that really revved her engine in her Down to There blog…

 

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Have you ever sent a sext to your partner with no reply? Was the anticipation itself good enough to get your blood pumping?
They could have been busy, but they also could have been stumped. Sometimes a great sext goes unanswered because its just too damn hot to top!
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her unexpected sexting experience in her  Down to There blog…

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Everyone gets turned on differently, but have you ever thought about the type of arousal that turns you on best?
Maybe you need to be relaxed before, or you want something kinkier to get you in the mood. One thing many of us can agree on though, is that sexual tension may be the best arousal technique around.
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her “energetic” experience in her Down to There blog…

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You would think with a class entitled “Polishing the Penis,” you’d come out of it with all the hand and mouth tricks you need to please any man’s member.
While the tips are great, there’s another lesson to be learned that’s even more important when becoming a penis professional.

 

Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her penis tutorial experience in her Down to There blog…

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