On today’s show, Emily’s compiled some highlights of her favorite interviews with expert guests who all share the same goal –– helping people have the best sex and relationships they can.
First thing’s first, lesbian sex is sex, is sex, is sex— nuanced for each person, relationship, and occasion. Lesbian sex can entail mutual masturbation or oral sex. It can be a festive polyamorous party or an old married couple doing their best to keep the flames of desire aglow after the kids go off to college. Every woman and trans-woman, regardless if she identifies as boi, butch, alpha, bi, unicorn, diesel, lipstick, queer, or another “type,” carries with her the same complex sexuality and sensuality all females share. Since the dawn of human sexuality studies, one fact about a woman’s desire remains constant… it’s always changing.
Dating: How do any of us do it? And more importantly, how do we do it right? On today’s show Emily is joined by writer, talk-show host, and overall badass Zara Barrie to unpack the hot topic of dating in the digital age — the good, the bad, and what it means for us as we try to find our match.
I knew the minute he told me that it was bullshit. I knew his opinion was wrong. I had learned enough about the female anatomy to know, logically, that my vagina was totally normal. No previous partner had ever made mention of my pussy being anything but a wonderful and satisfying place to be. I took care of it, I loved it, I even named her Tallulah Belle! Still, despite my better judgement, his uninformed opinion about the narrowness of my vaginal canal affected me profoundly. Continue Reading
Sex is instinctual for most living creatures. Except for certain exceptions like salmon, seahorses and single-celled organisms, sex is the foundation of survival for most species. As human beings, we’re lucky to have also evolved into a mental capacity for actual sexual enjoyment. With it being such an important and central part of our identity as a species, you would think that we’d be experts, right? WRONG. Continue Reading
It’s been 17 years (to this month) that the legendary Sex and the City first hit TV screens via HBO in 1998. Sex and the City was one of those shows that you really either swore by or hated. I was a die hard fan, believing that if I too chose a journalistic career I would inevitably live the fabulous Carrie Bradshaw life: an exciting excess of men, shoes and Cosmopolitans. But were all of the lessons that unfolded accurate or even realistic? Let’s take a break from mourning our nonexistent Carrie-approved shoe collections to weigh some of the phallus-related fallacies that existed in their world of the Upper East Side.
Here are 3 things that we definitely didn’t learn from the show, since they were inaccurate! Continue Reading
In this throwback podcast, fresh from the Sex With Emily vault, we’re taking it back to the San Francisco days! Emily is joined by good old Menace to discuss some (not so) current events and share some science-proven secrets to hot sex. Together, they tackle some of your emails on sex, dating and ejaculation etiquette, and also break down some commonly held sex myths. Does size really matter? Is semen nutritious? Is it safe to get busy during that time of the month? Emily has the answers and more!
Never tell your current partner that your last partner was good in bed. They don’t want to hear the amazing things this person did in bed or anything about the size of their penis or boobs.