Culture
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How to Give the Gift of Pleasure

The Sex With Emily 2023 Holiday Gift Guide is here! We’re all about giving and receiving, particularly when it comes to the gift of pleasure.

Breakups
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Sex Over the Holidays: From Hooking Up to Breaking Up

Why do people have more or less sex over the holidays? How do you maintain intimacy while staying with relatives? Let’s get into it.

BDSM & Kinks
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Am I The Asshole? My Partner Doesn’t Like Oral Sex

Are you the asshole for craving oral sex when your partner won’t give it? For hooking up with someone else while on a break? I let you know.

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Masturbation
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Elevated Masturbation: Try a Stroker

2 low-lift ways you can make your masturbation more exciting.

Anal Play
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Best Of: Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)

Sex isn’t just about penetration, yet that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” I give ideas for mutual masturbation, elevated oral & more.

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The Best Sex Toys According to Your Zodiac Sign

Let’s take a look at your Sun sign, your Sun qualities, and the sex toy that best speaks to those qualities. 

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Explore & Play
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The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette

I’m not talking about technique – I’m talking manners.

Anal Play
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How to Use Toys During Sex

Using sex toys with a partner can feel intimidating. I discuss beginner-friendly toy play ideas for oral sex, intercourse & even anal play.

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Fingering & Handjobs: The Art of Hand Play

Today, I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a handjob, and use your hands with sexual intention.