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Pumpkins, delicious food and family time is around the corner, meaning a little bit of free time. At Sex With Emily we have some erotic ideas to fill that free time.

This season we want to inspire your imagination with some Orgasmic October Ohh’s with a little erotica, how it can help play up your fantasies and benefit you sexual health in heaping loads.  

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We talk A LOT about issues surrounding the female sex drive, but we rarely discuss what it’s like for the person in the passenger seat. On today’s show, we’re unpacking this topic of low libido from a different angle and we’ve got Dr. Ian Kerner on the line to help provide a little insight.

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pictureperfectYou hear questions about mismatched libidos all the time on my podcast—One partner naturally desires sex more than the other, and resentments begin to build. So what does it actually feel like to be the partner who wants sex less?
Pam shares an important lesson she learned about her own struggle with desire and its affects on her marriage in the latest Down to There blog… 

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downtothereYou know how I’m always talking about the importance of mindful breathing when it comes to your pleasure? Well breath can also play a powerful role sexual desire… As Pam found out in her first Somatica coaching session!
Read on to find out how breathing “all the way down to there” helped her reconnect with her body and discover something new about herself (or to catch up, check out her first blog here)…

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The story itself is very familiar: Girl meets boy, they fall in love, get married and start a family. Then one day, they realize that their sex life is no longer the stuff of fairytales (or steamy romance novels, as the case may be).
Somewhere between building a life, building careers and building a beautiful family, sex somehow falls by the wayside. This becomes even more difficult when one partner’s sex drive remains steady while the others drops to a slow drizzle. What is a couple to do when sex becomes the biggest issue in an otherwise picture perfect partnership?

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Screen Shot 2015-04-12 at 1.40.34 PMIn a recent interview with NewScientist, A Psychologist in Massachusetts suggested the idea that sex drive does not actually exist.  Her name is Emily (imagine that!) Nagoski and she is the director of Wellness Education at Smith College and has a PhD in health behavior.

Merriam-Webster defines a “drive” as

an urgent, basic, or instinctual need :  a motivating physiological condition of an organism <a sexual drive>

of the word! It must exist! Dictionaries don’t lie, right? Nagoski’s reason for purporting such a seemingly obvious falsehood is that:

a drive is a motivational system to deal with life-or-death issues, like hunger or being too cold. You’re not going to die if you don’t have sex.”

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Continued from “Your Tips For Mind-Blowing Sex (Part 2)

Here at Sex With Emily, we spend a lot of time answering listener questions and we love every minute of it! So this week, we wanted to do something different. We flipped the script and put out a question to all of you:

“What makes truly mind-blowing sex?”

We asked listeners, followers (from Facebook and Twitter) and overall fans of Emily to think back to an amazing sexual encounter and tell us what made it so incredible.

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