Breaking Into Bondage

When you think of bondage, what comes to mind? Do you picture a slow and sensual seduction between you and your lover? Or does your mind immediately go to whips, ball gags and a plethora of leather?

Ever since the introduction of BDSM into the mainstream, people have become increasingly curious about the world of dominance and submission. Unfortunately many have developed the impression that this form of sex is intense, scary and often times violent. However, not all domination scenarios read like a chapter from 50 Shades of Grey- By starting off with something simple and sexy, like bondage, you and your partner can get a feel for this steamy sex trend and figure out just how far you’re willing to go with it.

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Go Down On Her Like You Mean It

Go down on her Unless your tongue is broken, there’s absolutely no excuse not to go down on her, especially if she’s going down on you. And if there is one thing women love it’s oral sex. With your tongue on her clitoris and your eyes looking into her eyes, go down on her with these six orgasmic-inducing tips.Tease tease tease.

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10 Tips on How to Kiss

How to Kiss

Some people never learn how to kiss. Their tongue darts down your throat or flaps weakly in your mouth. They kiss you with clenched lips or they open their mouth so wide your face is suctioned into their gaping mouth.

I don’t care if you can’t get it up to save your life, you orgasmed after 30 seconds, or your penis shriveled up inside of you. You’re not defeated if you can learn how to kiss (and successfully give her cunnilingus). Not that men are the only ones who need some pointers on kissing.

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Teasing is the classic way to start up something steamy– and the longer you savor the suspense, the better. The sexiest teasing sessions draw on all the senses.

Here’s an excerpt from my book Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight on teasing because teasing can be incredibly sexy when it’s done right…

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SWE – Pleasing, Teasing

Emily prepares a speech for a singles convention and Menace is resentful of hot women (no surprise here). How Emily handles Valentine’s Day, “expiration dating”, and teasing your partner sexually without being annoying. Emily talks about how long foreplay should last and why it’s important.


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