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masturbatory blog sex with emilyWe all love to play with ourselves. In fact, masturbation is probably one of humankind’s most popular approaches to pleasure. It’s cheap, good for you, and pretty easy to pull off (so to speak). But solo sexual stimulation has always lived in the shadow of the “real thing.” 

Sadly, masturbation is widely regarded as partnered sex’s less talented understudy… A reluctant last resort. A mere masturbatory means to an end.

Although it still gets you from point “A” to point “O” in the end, the ensuing orgasm has a tendency to feel lackluster without someone to co-opt coaxing it out of you. But it doesn’t have to! Continue Reading

We all dream of surprising that sexy someone in our life with a Valentine’s Day gift they’ve always wanted, but couldn’t ask for. We want it to be meaningful and intimate. Something more sophisticated than a mixtape but more romantic than, say, a food processor. It has to be something that communicates a very specific message: “I love you, I care about you and I didn’t get this 12 hours ago at Target”… You know who you are.

Though Valentine’s Day is generally a big holiday for jewelry, clothing and scented toiletries, I believe in giving a gift that can provide your partner (and yourself) with more than just a night of pleasure. Candy and cards only go so far, but multiple orgasms? That’s a gift she won’t soon forget! After all, when was the last time a woman cried out “Oh God, YES!” when receiving a gift card to Nordstrom? Exactly.

Whether you’re searching for the perfect present to show your partner how much you love them, or are simply looking to spread the self-love this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got pleasure-packed gifts for everyone on your list!

 

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The Magic Wand: the Cadillac of all vibrators. The body massager that’s been at the top of the charts for over 30 years. While the toy has set the precedence for what other companies should strive for, they themselves have seen all the changes the pleasure product market has gone through.

That’s why, for the first time ever, the company has chosen to recognize a handful of items that they are proud to share the space with. They asked me to weigh in on their choices, and they definitely picked the cream of the crop.

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Everyone has a different definition when it comes to “great sex.” What constitutes it? What makes it kinky, or what keeps it vanilla? The variety of answers go on and on. On today’s show, Emily is helping listeners like you figure out what great sex means to them and how to talk to their partners about it!

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I’ve been hearing about this Magic Wand for well over a decade now. Unfortunately, I was sexually stunted all through my 20’s, meaning I didn’t even buy my first vibrator until my mid 30’s. Mostly because the patriarchy still isn’t 100% on board with women’s pleasure. It doesn’t want sexually empowered lionesses who put our own needs, especially orgasms, first. No, women like us are a serious threat to the power structure and, therefore, have been slut-shamed into oblivion.

This kind of cultural brainwashing, plus my Southern upbringing, resulted in me being a sexual prude for a long ass time. A prude too ashamed to masturbate, even in college, despite the fact my friends were having threesomes by then. The fact I’d never been with a man who’d given me those fireworks-style orgasms probably had something to do with it, too. Either way, ignorance and shame turned me into a sexual Debbie Downer who just assumed orgasms weren’t in the cards for me.

Oh, how the tides have changed!  Continue Reading

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