About Smart Sex

Hailed as “the Dr. Ruth of a new generation” by The New York Times and host of the #1 relationship podcast “Sex with Emily,” Emily Morse is leading the pleasure revolution. Come join her!

At 35, Emily decided that she was sick of living in a sexual straitjacket. Instead of depending on a partner to fulfill her needs, she committed to exploring and explaining what turned her on. Since then, she has inspired her vast audience to join her on a journey of liberation.

Now in her book, Smart Sex, she introduces a radical paradigm called sexual intelligence (Sex IQ). Classified into five pillars—embodiment, health, collaboration, self-knowledge, and self-acceptance—she creates a framework for how to re educate yourself about pleasure. Using science, research, and lived experience, she illuminates how to:

  • Exercise your biggest sex organ: the brain.
  • Improve mindset and enhance satisfaction.
  • Take a desire inventory and pinpoint your wants.
  • Combat “pleasure thieves” that impede joy.
  • Use communication as lubrication.

Though desire is a birthright, we still live in a culture that teaches us to deprioritize it. As Emily writes, “We all need to reeducate ourselves on sex and pleasure.” Emily teaches you how.

Want to know your Sex IQ? Take the quiz HERE