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Masturbation Is Normal: Time to Break the Stigma

Masturbation is normal. Pleasure shouldn’t feel like a secret. But for a lot of people, it… Read more »

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What Happens to Your Body During Anal (Surgeon Explains)

If you’ve ever avoided anal because it hurt, felt intimidating, or just had too many unanswered… Read more »

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The Beginner’s Guide to Anal Pleasure

Solo anal play might be the most misunderstood sex act out there, and I’m done letting… Read more »

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Listen to This If Valentine’s Day Stresses You Out

A Pressure-Free Reframe on Desire, Connection, and Sex This isn’t your typical Valentine’s Day episode. I’m… Read more »

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Shame Around Masturbation Ruins Your Sex Life

Solo sex is one of the most powerful tools you have for better partnered sex —… Read more »

Breakups
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Why Your Partner’s Sexual Past Is Haunting Your Present

In this Sex with Emily hotline episode, Dr. Emily answers honest questions about sex, relationships, and… Read more »

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LELO Switch™ Review: Couples Tested, Connection Approved

The LELO Switch™ isn’t just a vibrator – it’s a teammate. With dual-ended design, app control, and luxury features, it helps couples deepen intimacy and explore new ways to connect.

BDSM & Kinks
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How to Master Dominant Positions 

Dominance in the bedroom isn’t about control for control’s sake—it’s about confidence, energy, and shared pleasure. Explore dominant positions and toy pairings that put you in command, heighten intimacy, and unlock a whole new level of erotic play.

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Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials

Here’s what you actually need on your trip, for a guaranteed hot time. 

Product Reviews
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SONA 3 Cruise Review: We Tried the New LELO Clitoral Toy

When LELO dropped the SONA 3 Cruise, we had to see if it lived up to the hype. Spoiler: it does. Sleek, powerful, and totally next-level.