In a recent interview with NewScientist, A Psychologist in Massachusetts suggested the idea that sex drive does not actually exist. Her name is Emily (imagine that!) Nagoski and she is the director of Wellness Education at Smith College and has a PhD in health behavior.
Merriam-Webster defines a “drive” as
an urgent, basic, or instinctual need : a motivating physiological condition of an organism <a sexual drive>
of the word! It must exist! Dictionaries don’t lie, right? Nagoski’s reason for purporting such a seemingly obvious falsehood is that:
“a drive is a motivational system to deal with life-or-death issues, like hunger or being too cold. You’re not going to die if you don’t have sex.”
“Waiting to have sex” seems like a thing of the past doesn’t it? In fact, after even uttering the phrase, one is instantly transported to a time of jukeboxes, pop and fedoras. Until recently, people were expected to holdout until marriage due to stringent sexual taboos and traditions. Therefore, exploring the many joys of intercourse on a first date would not only hinder your intimate relationships— it could possibly exterminate your social life all together.
I believe it was Marilyn Monroe who said “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything”. Despite the fact that the international sex symbol had reportedly never experienced an orgasm of her own (I believe they call that irony) she turned out to be 100% correct in this assertion: A man with a sense of humor has the power to bring a woman much more than a clever punch line – He can bring her multiple orgasms.
There are a lot of different ways a person can spice up a relationship. You can try role playing, experiment with some bondage, play around with some fun sex toys.. or engage in regular threesomes with a life-sized sex doll that your boyfriend keeps in the basement.
If that last one threw you for a loop, you’re not alone. As we all experienced during the well-done, but relentlessly uncomfortable indie flick Lars and the Real Girl, there is a definite stigma attached to life-size sex dolls. But for Dave Hockey and girlfriend Shawna Bigelow, beneath that flesh-like silicone exterior lies the secret to a happy and sex-filled relationship.. Which is why they’ve spent over $32,000 on a collection of five of them.
For those of you who have abandoned dating apps like Tinder, or dating sites like OKCupid, for being too raunchy, to sex-focused, not helpful in making a real-connection.. There is something new, and completely G-Rated, coming your way!
This new app, set to release on iTunes tomorrow, is called Cuddlr and it’s basically Tinder, except instead of being on the receiving end of a barrage of dick pics and requests for sex, users have only one goal: some consensual cuddling!
A Bay City man was arrested & charged for assault after he attacked a man with whom he and his wife had recently had a threesome with.
It’s the age old tale of menage-a-trois gone wrong – A married couple invites a homeless man to stay with them, they have a threesome, the wife and the homeless man break off into a two-some, and the ex-marine, but definitely still bipolar, husband freaks out and tries to kill him.
We all remember how we got “the talk”, right? It was either our parents sitting us down to explore their own, very out-dated, copy of “the birds and the bees” or we watching those awkward videos at school with fellow fifth grade classmates. However, one school in the Bay Area took sex education to the next level. Parents of The Fremont Unified school district began a petition to ban the sex-ed book “Your Health Today” due to its “inappropriate” topic choices.
While everyone offline was enjoying a fun Labor Day weekend, the Internet was a flurry of excitement, intrigue and overall.. fapping. Yes it was the kind of cyber-hurricane that could only be caused by one thing: Naked celebrity photos.
Hundreds of nude and semi-nude photos surfaced Sunday featuring some the hottest female A-Listers in a variety of suggestive positions. Cleverly coined “The Fappening” by people with way too much time on their hands, this massive leak is both a hacker’s wet dream, and a celebrity’s worst nightmare. The photos were reportedly ripped from the celebs’ phones and cloud storage accounts, such as the ever-frustrating iCloud, proving that nobody’s nudies are safe.
“Those looking for an eyeful will get one.” – Variety
“Much genuine pain is inflicted in Kink.” – Hollywood Reporter
A Film by Christina Voros
Director Christina Voros and producer James Franco pull back the curtain on the fetish empire of Kink.com, the Internet’s largest producer of BDSM content. In a particularly obscure corner of an industry that operates largely out of public view, Kink.com’s directors and models strive for authenticity. In an enterprise often known for exploitative practices, Kink.com upholds an ironclad set of values to foster an environment that is safe, sane, and consensual. They aim to demystify the BDSM lifestyle, and to serve as an example and an educational resource for the BDSM community.
In kink, we discover not only a fascinating and often misunderstood subculture, but also, in a career far from the mainstream, a group of intelligent, charismatic, and driven people who really, truly love what they do.
Have you ever experienced a truly mortifying “caught masturbating” moment? Maybe your mom walked in on you mid-session, scarring you for life? Or your girlfriend stumbled across you with your pants down, laptop in hand while porn grunting? Well, no matter what happened, I guarantee you: There is a man in Germany who has got you beat!
Last Tuesday, German police made a quick stop at a home in the swanky Schwabing district in Munich. They were there to check on a 57-year-old man who, according to the neighbor who contacted the authorities, had not been seen in several days.