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non-sexual blog sex with emilyWhen I say I am a “BDSM coach,” people often respond with wide-eyed surprise. Of course the titillation is there when people hear “BDSM”, especially thanks to 50 Shades. But I think it is mainly because “BDSM” screams “kinky, unconventional naughty sex” to people.

There are many aspects of BDSM that do not include sexual contact at all. Some activities are also what I would consider “sex adjacent”. This means there is no sexual genital contact, but there might be some sexual allure/arousal occurring.

This article provides some examples of the glorious non-sexual aspects of BDSM.

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macrophilia blog sex with emilyAnother day, another fetish spotlight—today’s of which is all about macrophilia.

Drawing from high school Latin classes you definitely remember, you might have a guess as to what the term means. But we’re here to clear the air and give you a detailed run-down of this fetish. To no one’s surprise, macrophilia translates to “lover of large”.

Think Alice and Wonderland, Attack of the 50 Foot Woman, that one episode of I Dream of Jeannie and I think you’ll start to catch my drift.

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dominant blog sex with emilyBack when we had another sequel to the 50 Shades trilogy to look forward to, some of us could at least fantasize about doing some of the steamy things dominant Christian and submissive Anastasia were doing.

This year, if you want to spice up your sex life on Valentine’s day with some BDSM, you’re going to have to DIY without the box office fantasy. This is a good thing, as the movies were problematic anyway as far as proper and ethical BDSM behavior is concerned.

Lucky for you, this article is comin’ in hot! And just in time for the big V day. If you haven’t yet planned and executed a BDSM “scene,” Valentine’s day is the perfect time to do it!

So, let’s get you strapped in, tied down, and focused on the following steps and tips to set up a hot and fun BDSM scene for your Valentine this year.

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sexual blog sex with emilyFor some peculiar reason, modern society raises us to view sexuality as something rigid and fixed, as if our sensuality could be set in stone. You’re gay or you’re straight, trans or cis, vanilla or kinky, and that’s that.

However through both my personal experience, and my years working as a sexuality doula, this doesn’t seem to be the case. At all.

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The questions that get asked the most center around “getting my partner to (insert sexual act here).” The thing is, you’re not going to get your partner to do anything – so let’s get that out of the way.

What you can do, however, is communicate with them in a way to help them see why it is that you want them to (sexual act here).

That’s where the yes/no/maybe lists come in.

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rough blog sex with emilyThe holidays can be a rough time of year. You have to save money to buy gifts, plan out dinners for family visits, make accommodations for traveling, all whilst having a cheerful heir about you.

Geez. I’m already ready for a nap. But, there can be use of all this newfound frustration. Channel your inner aggressions towards the place where dreams and orgasms come true— the bedroom. It’s time to have some of that primal, rough, and carnal sex that’s built into our DNA!

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