We all learn lessons from our sexual pasts, but how do you know what tips to take and what to leave behind? On this show, Emily is taking your calls and doling out advice to help you overcome lingering sex insecurities for a hotter new year.
Finding a match these days can feel like finding a needle in a haystack, especially when you think about the fact that there are over 7 billion people on the planet. But instead of letting that overwhelm you, I like to think of all the potential.
Every time you leave your house, there’s a possibility of meeting your next great love (or next great hookup). It could happen at your local coffee shop, the dog park, a new cafe you’ve been wanting to try… Still, with all the possibilities for “meeting cute”, there are some people you may run into that should forever remain OFF the menu. Continue Reading
Despite the looming threat of climate change, winter is still on its way (kind of) and along with it comes another change in season. For whatever reason, we are more inclined to stay in when “the weather outside is frightful.” Maybe it’s because the lack of sun is depriving us of energy and driving up our melatonin levels, or maybe it’s the appeal of cuddling up with a cup of hot chocolate. Whatever the case may be, it’s clear that the pumpkin spice lattes are upon us and so is cuffing season. Continue Reading
The walk of shame. Most of us are familiar with the act, many of us have experienced it. If you haven’t, you’ve at least caught someone in the midst of their own. The messed up hair, the unkempt outfit from the night before, the black smears of makeup, and if it was really a wild night, the shoes are in the hand and not on the feet. Continue Reading
Are you struggling to sustain your solo sex life without your favorite visual aids? Looking for tips to help boost your lover’s sexual skills? How do you keep the “casual” in your casual sex relationship?
When the mood strikes, it can be tempting to get down and dirty just about anywhere, but not so fast! In today’s show, Emily and Menace reveal why you might want to think twice about where you want to get frisky, and address some of your additional transitional trepidations. Continue Reading
About 5 years ago, I had a casual sex relationship with a man and it was the best sex I’ve ever had. We went on a few dates, but there was no intellectual connection. Fast forward to now: I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and recently texted my old booty-call asking if he is single. Now, I know we don’t have a connection, we will never have a relationship and we’ve both said we’re over the casual sex thing. However, I haven’t been physically satisfied for over five years with anyone except for him.
So my question is: what are the rules here? Will I be using him if I just want sex? I know he probably wouldn’t have a problem with it, but if we are both trying to find something “real”, is this all a waste of time?
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Casual sex is all but a given in today’s hookup culture, but a lot of women still walk away from a one-night stand feeling far from satisfied. It’s not because they’re secretly hoping for every tumble to turn into a full-blown relationship. The fact is that 70 percent of Americans have had at least one night of passion with a stranger, but only 22 percent of women report achieving orgasm during these encounters. That’s a lot of ladies left wanting! Continue Reading
In case you missed it, there has been a noticeable trend in the world of sex and relationships: People are having more sex and less relationships.
While this may not hold true for all, you can’t deny that the hookup culture truly is booming. Rather than jumping from one relationship to another, more and more singles are keeping their options open and their commitments minimal. When done right and done responsibly, this can be a great way to explore your sexuality and figure out what you like, both in the bedroom and in a partner… If you can figure out how to navigate the murky waters of no-strings-attached sex. Continue Reading