About 5 years ago, I had a casual sex relationship with a man and it was the best sex I’ve ever had. We went on a few dates, but there was no intellectual connection. Fast forward to now: I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and recently texted my old booty-call asking if he is single. Now, I know we don’t have a connection, we will never have a relationship and we’ve both said we’re over the casual sex thing. However, I haven’t been physically satisfied for over five years with anyone except for him.
So my question is: what are the rules here? Will I be using him if I just want sex? I know he probably wouldn’t have a problem with it, but if we are both trying to find something “real”, is this all a waste of time?
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Casual sex is all but a given in today’s hookup culture, but a lot of women still walk away from a one-night stand feeling far from satisfied. It’s not because they’re secretly hoping for every tumble to turn into a full-blown relationship. The fact is that 70 percent of Americans have had at least one night of passion with a stranger, but only 22 percent of women report achieving orgasm during these encounters. That’s a lot of ladies left wanting! Continue Reading
In case you missed it, there has been a noticeable trend in the world of sex and relationships: People are having more sex and less relationships.
While this may not hold true for all, you can’t deny that the hookup culture truly is booming. Rather than jumping from one relationship to another, more and more singles are keeping their options open and their commitments minimal. When done right and done responsibly, this can be a great way to explore your sexuality and figure out what you like, both in the bedroom and in a partner… If you can figure out how to navigate the murky waters of no-strings-attached sex. Continue Reading
I remember a time when nearly all girls were adamant that they would never have sex with a guy after only the first date. In 2015, a time of extended freedom and altered expectations, does that still reign true? I feel like there’s a more even mix of opinions on the matter these days, so the question remains: Is it appropriate for a girl to initiate sex on the first date or for the first time with a new guy? Continue Reading
Single Women face a lot of criticism about their sex lives. They are either having way too much sex or not enough sex. By slut shaming and prude shaming people try to control female sexuality.
If single, how can women avoid being hung up on lack of sex, intimacy, romance…?
Being single is great because it gives you free time to work on yourself and pursue your interests. Keep life full by spending time with friends and finding out what you love. Obsessing about being single and brooding about your unsatisfying love live will do nothing to change your situation. Pursuing your interests and discovering what you’re truly passionate about will.
Casual sex, otherwise known as “hooking up,” has become less and less of a taboo over the past few years. Hook up culture is glorified in movies, television, and music while its realities are debated on countless news and social media outlets.
The phrase “Casual Sex” refers to an array of sexual acts, it can be sex in a casual relationship, a one-time encounter, promiscuous sex, an extramarital affair and beyond. It’s evident that casual sex has always gone on behind closed doors, but it’s clear that now it’s become an undeniable part of our society. So what are its benefits and its downfalls- what are the consequences of casual sex? Continue Reading
Two women in Santa Fe, New Mexico recently realized that they were being watched by a peeping tom during an intimate moment. However, the peeping tom wasn’t even outside, he was actually in their bedroom.
Just because it’s casual sex, doesn’t mean it has to be bad sex. Emily talks about one night stands– the excitement, build up, and anticlimactic finish. Emily shows you how to have casual sex that won’t disappoint… Continue Reading
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Emily was up late last night making jello shots for the Sex with Emily staff party. How to meet women, the stop and start method for men to help them with control, and casual sex etiquette: cuddling, oral sex and swapping numbers.
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