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rough blog sex with emilyThe holidays can be a rough time of year. You have to save money to buy gifts, plan out dinners for family visits, make accommodations for traveling, all whilst having a cheerful heir about you.

Geez. I’m already ready for a nap. But, there can be use of all this newfound frustration. Channel your inner aggressions towards the place where dreams and orgasms come true— the bedroom. It’s time to have some of that primal, rough, and carnal sex that’s built into our DNA!

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kink history blog sex with emilyWhen we hear the word ‘kink,’ we tend to let our minds fall deep into the gutter. Getting intimate with someone on the kinkier side means you most likely won’t be having your run of the mill sexual experience.

But kink is nothing new! People have been getting raunchy for millennia, and are showing no signs of stopping.

To set your dirty little mind at ease, here’s a brief history of all things kinky.

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sex fails blog sex with emilySex is like pizza: even if it’s not that good, it’s still pretty good. But let’s face it, sometimes sex fails happen. 

Hopefully the amount of crazy, amazing sex you’re having outweighs the amount that constitutes one of these “fails”. But for those of us who have had plenty of sexual excursions in their life, there has to be at least one horror story you’d like to keep behind closed doors.

Remember though, no matter how bad the sex is, though, it can always be worse. Much, much worse. 

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve got the worst sex fail of them all, here are a few true stories of sex gone horribly, horribly wrong. You know, for reassurance.

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choking blog sex with emilySo you wanna learn all about choking? You’ve come to the right place.

There are so many different ways to explore choking, but it’s important to do it safely. Very important. I mean, we are talking about constricting someone’s airways here.

So today is your crash course in choking etiquette 101. Let’s go!

***Safety Disclaimer: Choking can be very dangerous in the wrong hands. When and if you are in doubt, DO NOT TRY THIS at all. This site and author are not responsible for any accidents if they happen. Be smart and know your limits.***

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Dear Emily,

Thanks for the sexual empowerment you offer to everyone. I have a question about introducing bondage and rough play with a new partner. How do you do it? I actually scared a guy recently when I asked him to choke me in bed. That is obviously not my future goal, so I’m hoping you can help me figure out a way to ease partners into it. Also, what’s the best way to tie someone up?

Thanks again for the great advice! I love your podcast.
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