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foreplay bedroom blog sex with emilyWhen you think of foreplay, do you think touching, kissing, massaging? And do you think that happens in the bedroom as simply a perfunctory “warmup” for the big deed? Like, say, 10 minutes worth?

Well, think again. Foreplay isn’t just for the bedroom. In fact, it can be a geographically diverse series of events! It should even start wayyyy before sex.

This article will help you prime yourself and your partner for a sexy night. Here are some things you can do to make the leading up to sex (almost) as good as the sex itself.

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fun blog sex with emilyAttraction is chemistry meeting biology. When one sees someone they’re attracted to, their eyes dilate, a rush of neurotransmitters flood the brain. It’s carnal. Mouths water, skin gets goosebumps, and hairs stand on end.

Sometimes sex can feel like a spiritual experience, like two souls emotionally and physically intertwining. In the media it’s portrayed as the culmination of tension between two people – the ultimate expression of connection. 

But sex doesn’t always have to be so serious. And sometimes there’s too much pressure on making sex more ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ rather than ‘Fifty Shades of Play.’ If you feel like the heat is beginning to cool, here are some ways to bring fun back into the bedroom. 

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comfort zone blog sex with emilyHumans are creatures of habit: we fall asleep at night, we wake up in the morning and we have the same kinds of sex. All. The. Damn. Time.

Whether you have a longterm partner, or you’re getting bored with the casual stuff, sex can be like anything else: we tend to find what works and stick with it.

But what if your routine isn’t revving your engine anymore? Here’s how to widen your horizons and get out of your sexual comfort zone.

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distance blog sex with emilyThe heart wants what it wants, and sometimes the heart wants to date someone 100,000 miles away. The distance is especially painful when everyone around you is celebrating a holiday of love.

Whether you’re in a 90-Day Fiancee situation, or just apart from your sweetie for work or school, long distance relationships can sometimes feel like a fool’s errand. But, they don’t have to be!

If you can treat your sweetie with love and respect, regardless of whether or not you sleep in the same bed on V-day, then your LDR might just be able to go the distance! Here are some tips and tricks for making things work with your out of state dreamboat this Valentines day.

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dominant blog sex with emilyBack when we had another sequel to the 50 Shades trilogy to look forward to, some of us could at least fantasize about doing some of the steamy things dominant Christian and submissive Anastasia were doing.

This year, if you want to spice up your sex life on Valentine’s day with some BDSM, you’re going to have to DIY without the box office fantasy. This is a good thing, as the movies were problematic anyway as far as proper and ethical BDSM behavior is concerned.

Lucky for you, this article is comin’ in hot! And just in time for the big V day. If you haven’t yet planned and executed a BDSM “scene,” Valentine’s day is the perfect time to do it!

So, let’s get you strapped in, tied down, and focused on the following steps and tips to set up a hot and fun BDSM scene for your Valentine this year.

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dirty blog sex with emilyLove it or hate it, talking dirty is an art form. 

It’s hot, enticing, adventurous…and also pretty nerve-racking. The thought saying something that sounded WAY better in your head than when it actually comes out of your mouth is scary.

The struggle, my friends, is real. The good news is anyone can become a rousing wordsmith with some time and practice! So if you need a little guidance, here are our top blogs and podcasts on how to do it best. Continue Reading

gender blog sex with emilyDiving into dirty talk can seem super intimidating. But using your lips (yes, the ones on your face) is easier than you may think. When it comes to talking dirty, being empowering and inclusive as you turn up the volume is the sexiest thing of all.

Whether you’re a gender non-conforming babe, an all-affirming partner, or you just like to keep your dirty talk as versatile as possible, here are some tips for bedroom talk that turns up the heat while shutting down the gender binary. Continue Reading

foreplay sex with emily blogFantastic foreplay, is it the missing ingredient for your perfect sexual menu? I get it, sex is fun! It’s hard to wait to enjoy it, and you want to rush to the main course (penetrative sex).

However, foreplay can be just as fun, and perhaps even more so. By the time you’ve finished reading this blog, you’ll be a foreplay champ, and your lovers can thank me later. 

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