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Q: DEAR EMILY,
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year. He recently transferred law schools, so now we’re in a long-distance relationship. I’m so proud of him, but in a shocking twist, not as psyched about the distance. I really value physical touch in love-language-speak and, well, long-distance makes that a bit difficult.
At first, sexting and phone sex were new and exciting for the two of us, but it’s become harder to initiate with him back in school and living with roommates (yes, I know, another glorious shift). Do you have any recommendations for keeping things hot?
Any advice would be appreciated, and thanks again for all that you do!
Amy, 27, SC
Some couples can barely go a few hours without seeing each other, but if you’ve been/are in a long distance relationship (LDR), you know the icy pain of real yearning, craving, and thirst. Whether it’s days, weeks, or months, being apart from your significant other for an extended period of time is hard.
You can’t smell their skin, taste their lips, hear their heart, feel their breath on your neck, or see into their eyes. You don’t realize how precious those basics are until they are gone. Then, when they are gone, thoughts take their place– scary, unsettling thoughts.
But don’t fret! There are a few tricks for your LDR to make it work.
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