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I’m just going to put this out there — I have had quite a bit of mediocre sex.

No disrespect to my past partners, I certainly had a part in it as well. I expected them all to read my mind and KNOW what I wanted, without ever actually telling them what I wanted. And like many women out there, I gave epic orgasmic performances and handed out positive feedback to guys who didn’t even come close to earning it.

And then something wonderful happened. The sex started getting better! A lot of that had to do with the fact that I started to figure out what I liked in bed and became more comfortable asking for it. But there was also a shift in my partners’ bedroom attitudes that made a big difference. Whether I was choosing more considerate guys, or the guys I always flocked to had done some maturing, I can’t be sure. But all of a sudden, my partners genuinely cared about whether I was having a good time. And as a result, I WAS having a good time.  Continue Reading

635607063067907992-1448363331_boy and girlAs much as we’d like to believe that sex is always an effortlessly romantic affair,  that’s sadly just not the case. Sex can be magical… poetic even, but it can also be messy, uncomfortable and downright awkward. So it’s inevitable that by the time you reach the status of expert-level lover, you’ll have at least a few skeletons in your sex closet.
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52a08e9044f5625cf8b9183a2a0e4297Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and I know you’re scrambling to find the perfect gift for that sexy someone in your life. Do you get them chocolate? Flowers? A big screen TV? So many choices, so little time..

As you know, I’m a big believer in giving a gift that can bring you and your lover pleasure all year long.. And since V-Day is all about the giving and receiving of love (self or otherwise), it seems fitting to pick a present that does the same. So whether you’re single or in a relationship, here are my top picks for gifts to put the “Happy” in anyone’s Valentine’s Day..

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IMG_6048One of the most detrimental issues that can crop-up if you’re in a long-term relationship is the lack of communication around sex.

Sure, it seems simple enough to just talk to each other, but it can be so hard to get the conversation started. Especially if talking about sex is unchartered territory, as it is for many couples.

A fun and sexy way to open up communication with your partner is with a sensual massage. Of course a sensual massage might leads to sex (which is never a bad thing) but more importantly it also leads to better communication. Not just verbally, but through the body as well, which is one of the most effective kinds of communication in a relationship.

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205444e03161f8701d0b1f3400aee13eHere at Sex With Emily, we spend a lot of time answering listener questions and we love every minute of it! So this week, we wanted to do something different. We flipped the script and put out a question to all of you:

“What makes truly mind-blowing sex?”

We asked listeners, followers (from Facebook and Twitter) and overall fans of Emily to think back to an amazing sexual encounter and tell us what made it so incredible.

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I know you’ve all heard about my new line of products that will enhance your sex life. I’m so excited to share my aromatherapy massage candles with you! This luxurious soft glowing massage candle sets the mood for an exhilarating sensual experience. These alluring candles come in three delicious scents: Creme de Vanille, Coco, and Fougere. Find out more at Emily & Tony!

We’ve all flipped through Cosmo tips on what men want in bed, whether it’s a twist of the wrist during a hand job or sexy eye contact during oral sex. Sure, technique is important, but Cosmo’s glossing over what guys want more than anything— a woman who is genuinely into sex and knows what she wants. Men don’t want you to just go through the motions. No one wants to have sex with a robot (well most people, anyway). Men want a woman who actually wants to have sex, initiates it, enjoys it, and is open to new things.

5 WAYS TO UP YOUR GAME

1. Know What You Want

If knowing what you want makes you better in bed, your first homework assignment is to figure out exactly how you an orgasm (you might want to have three or four orgasms just to make sure you’ve got your technique down).

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had sex one time or more times than you can count (I mean really, who can keep track?). You need to explore your own body before you can have truly great sex with another person. Continue Reading