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isodating blog sex with emilyThe Spring of 2020 was really rough on people with active dating and social lives. Staying safe at home meant that our normal patterns of meeting people for dinner, drinks, or something a bit more intimate, had to be put on hold. But humans are still humans,  and we didn’t just give up on it! We got creative and started “Isodating”.

What exactly is Isodating? How do you do it? And how can help it help you get some human to human social contact, or maybe even more?

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threesome medley blog sex with emilyYou may know them, and might love them – but either way it’s likely you’ve thought about trying one. That’s right! Today we’re talking about one of the top fantasies in the book: threesomes. Which, as you can imagine, have a lot of…factors to consider.

So to help quench your curiosity and determine whether or not they’re something you’re interested in for yourself, here’s a mix of our favorite three-way blogs and podcasts.

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sexual blog sex with emilyFor some peculiar reason, modern society raises us to view sexuality as something rigid and fixed, as if our sensuality could be set in stone. You’re gay or you’re straight, trans or cis, vanilla or kinky, and that’s that.

However through both my personal experience, and my years working as a sexuality doula, this doesn’t seem to be the case. At all.

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growing blog sex with emilySo, you’ve been with your significant other for a while: congratulations! You went through the early jitters, the butterflies, the heart eyes emojis. And now? You’ve hit the part of the relationship that’s just like everyday life: a little stagnant and at times boring.

Every honeymoon phase comes to an end, and finding ways to navigate the relationship through the years is where the real work takes place. Relationships are like house plants: you have to care for them everyday, or one morning you’ll wake up to the withered remains of a hanging plant you really loved, thinking “wow, it really came to this.” Here’s some tips and tools to stay growing in your relationship, and not plateauing!

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cheating blog sex with emilyInfidelity isn’t a word that we want to say, hear, or think about.

However, the reality is that it does happen. Often. 

Monogamous relationships aren’t the only ones dealing with this puzzle either. All forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships face this challenge too. 

Which begs the questions, what counts as cheating? Furthermore, how can we avoid it?

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Screen Shot 2016-09-19 at 4.26.35 PMFrom a velcro wall to your bedroom, it’s no secret that Sportsheets has taken the sex world by storm. In today’s show, Emily and Menace are joined by CEO and founder of Sportsheets, Tom Stewart. With Tom as their guide, they unpack the evolution of the revolutionary bondage brand, in addition to providing you with you ample advice to satisfy all your carnal curiosities! Continue Reading

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Monogamy

Dear Emily,
I have a question. I have communicated to my partners that I don’t want a complete commitment and want to keep things light. They don’t listen. I try to spell it out. I try to be subtle. Nothing seems to work. I don’t have a fear of monogamy but was in a long marriage where sexual compatibility was terrible. She made me feel awful for wanting it. I just wanted to point that out before my question rattled the monogamy bell.
Great show. Keep it up!
Dan
Los Angeles, CA