Ask Emily: Post Traumatic Oral Disorder

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Dear Emily,

I have a confession: I hate giving blow jobs.

The first and last real time that I tried going down on a guy, it was horrible. He smelled really bad down there, and when I tried to just power through it, he pushed my head down and I gagged. He lost his erection and we never hooked up again. Ever since then, I’ve avoided giving BJ’s at all costs.

Now, I’m with a really good guy who is so kind and loving to me. He has made it known that he really LOVES getting blow jobs (even more than sex!) and I really want to give him one, but I keep thinking back to that bad experience. How do I get over my oral sex fears and give him the amazing blow job he deserves?

Sincerely,

Amanda

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Steaks and Blow Jobs and Bubbly – Oh My!

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Although you may have trouble finding a card for it at Hallmark, and you probably won’t be getting the day off work, a very special holiday is right around the corner. Consider it men’s follow up for Valentine’s Day – A way of saying thank you for a job well done. Your man made the dinner reservations, he wrapped the presents, he got those truffles you love so much, and this is his much-deserved reward! Whatever it is you call it, just know that there will be blow jobs.. And probably steak.

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Ready, Set, Oral

IMG_7313You’ve got sex questions; Emily and Menace have answers.. And then some! From the politics of sex and dating in the workplace to a quest for the missing orgasm, in this show Emily’s answering your emails and giving you tips to ease your sexual anxieties, and help you step things up in the bedroom.

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The Best Oral Sex Tips You’ve Never Heard

Emily Headshot 10.24.14This week Emily shares the best oral sex tips you’ve never heard, why you should date multiple people sometimes, how to really approach a person successfully and why your phone might not only be ruining your relationship but also preventing you from finding one.

After 8 years, Rhune Kincaid (of the Pretty Oddcast podcast and Loveline fame) shares how he finally approached a woman at a bar and it was a success. Approaching, flirting and talking to people are skills. Just like all skills, you need to practice but it gets easier and is a requirement if you’d rather not be single.

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In case you missed it… (10/23/2014)

Did you get a chance to tune in to the live streaming of Thursday’s show? Here’s your chance to catch up!


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Was it good for you? Email me at Feedback@SexWithEmily.com.
And don’t forget to keep tuning in for regular Live Streams of my weekly Podcast..

Be Direct For Better Sex

Zemanta Related Posts ThumbnailIn this very special episode of Sex With Emily, a reunion takes place..

Emily and Menace are back again, and they discuss some recent sex trends, engage in a little reminiscing and dish out some much-needed listener advice.

Today’s email topics include:
– A question on Kegel Exercises for men
– How to recover from a bad oral experience
– How to handle dubious boyfriend behavior
– How to tell if she’s really interested
– How to deliver multiple O’s

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Emily in Swingland

danielsternDid you know that there’s an estimated 15 million swingers in the world?  This week, Emily interviews Daniel Stern, author of Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle. Listen in on how a single man learned to navigate “The Lifestyle” and pick up some specific tips on how you can add a little spice to your sex life. Daniel shares his insider experiences and tips that we can use in any relationship – whether swinging, married, dating or single.

Emily and Anderson catch up and we hear all about Emily’s sold out “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler. Plus, the pair dare to ask Dan about some of his most crazy stories about swinging. Prepare yourself for dominatrixes, orgies and cuckolding gone wrong!

Daniel shares how The Lifestyle took him from being “bad at sex” to a master in the bedroom. He shares his best tips for performing oral sex on a woman, how to date and still be a swinger and the best websites to use when you’re looking for a partner (or partners).  Also, he explains why you might have the wrong impression of what a swinger really is and the pros and cons of being a swinger. What’s the best way to introduce a new partner to your sexual past? Do all swingers have ponytails? Is The Lifestyle right for you? Those questions answered and more in the latest episode of Sex With Emily!

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Let’s Talk About the Blow Job

lips-mouth-red-red-lips-sexy-teeth-Favim.com-77796This wednesday, July 16th, I’ll be hosting my “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler Hollywood. We’ll be talking about oral sex tips, sex toy recommendations, masturbation and everything in between. You can RSVP to feedback@sexwithemily.com So, I was inspired by my workshop as well as a recent episode of Loveline, in which Mike Catherwood, Dr. Drew and I discuss the ever popular blow job, I’m curious about what you think fellatio?

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Sex Talk with Super Pornstar Siri


On the latest podcast Emily interviews adult film star Siri, the all-natural beauty who has swiftly skyrocketed to success. Listen in as this self-proclaimed “late bloomer” turned sex-positive bombshell give specific tips for performing oral sex on women (and men), anal sex, the truth about faking orgasms – on and off camera, her favorite position and her fantasy role as Power Girl in the world of cosplay.

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Is It Better to Give Than to Receive?

Is it Better to Give Than to Receive?It’s said that it is a far more blessed thing to give than to receive but in this case, we’re not quite sure. The women participating in a recent charity event seemed to be pretty happy with what they got.

This week, Simple Pickup, a YouTube channel following three guys (Jason, Jesse and Kong) as they pickup girls, decided to put their catcalling to good use. The guys asked random women on the beach to try out the classic Sybian- a ride-on masturbation device from the 80s. For every second that a woman could stay on the Sybian, Simple Pickup donated $5 to The Orchid Project, a charity dedicated to the prevention of female circumcision.

Though the Sybian is a relic of sex toys past, you can check out Good Vibes for some of the latest and greatest sex toys, it seemed to provide participants with a fair amount of pleasure. Simple Pickup is donating an additional $100 for every 100,00 views their sex toy stunt gets. The video is pretty funny and you can watch it here.  Participants seem to struggle between being pleasured and remaining composed in front of the camera, one woman even seems to have a really intense orgasm!

Use coupon code GVEMILY20 for 20% off at GoodVibes.com

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