Orgasms To All, And To All A Good Night

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“Don’t stop, don’t stop, doooon’t stop!” She pleads on the brink of intense pleasure, and then…
“I’m coming,” he says.
Fine. I’ll just finish the job myself, she thinks as her boyfriend lies next to her in aloof  satisfaction.

Unfortunately, I know this scenario all too well. Sex can be incredibly enjoyable, but sometimes the experience can end a bit prematurely— can your lady-friend also attest to this?

Don’t fret, there is a simple solution.

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Your Tips for Mind-Blowing Sex (Part 1)

205444e03161f8701d0b1f3400aee13eHere at Sex With Emily, we spend a lot of time answering listener questions and we love every minute of it! So this week, we wanted to do something different. We flipped the script and put out a question to all of you:

“What makes truly mind-blowing sex?”

We asked listeners, followers (from Facebook and Twitter) and overall fans of Emily to think back to an amazing sexual encounter and tell us what made it so incredible.

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5 Mistakes Men Make in Bed (& How To Fix Them)

1So let’s be honest: Every man wants to believe that he is incredible in bed. You want that feeling of accomplishment, that gold star on your sexual resume, that hushed whisper between ex-lovers: “He was THE BEST I’ve ever had”. You want to know that when you roll yourself over for the classic post-sex “Was it good for you?” that your partner’s resounding YES was 100% the real deal.

Unfortunately for men, women are much better at handing out empty compliments and “job well done”s than we are at offering constructive criticism. Meaning that you could be walking around with that extra swagger in your step, without any idea of what you might be doing wrong (or how to fix it, for that matter).

Lucky for you, I’m not afraid to hit you with the hard facts: There are certain areas that a lot of men tend to stumble over. So if you really want to knock it out of the park, sexually speaking, allow me to offer a few helpful and totally uncensored pointers. From jumping the gun with dirty talk to not knowing what to do with your hands, here are five common mistakes that you may make in bed, and how to overcome them.

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The Orgasm Gap: How to Last Longer in Bed.

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Today’s episode answers the age old dilemma for men and women: How can I enjoy a more fulfilling sex life? Flooded by listener emails about dissatisfying sex lives, this show focuses on the “orgasm gap” between men and women.

Men tend to arrive to the party earlier than women (on average) so how do we close this gap so everyone can have their fair share of orgasms? Women can have multiple orgasms, so why do men have 3 orgasms for every 1 that women have?

Todays Emily explores the world of the “minute man” and how to last longer in bed. So what is the exact definition of Premature Ejaculation (PE)? In the studio contributing to the dialogue along with Anderson is Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, the only FDA approved treatment for PE.

Sure, Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is covered by drugs such a Viagra but there’s never been a fix for PE or even for guys who just want to last longer in bed. If she takes 25 minutes to climax and he takes 10 minutes, what’s the solution?

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A Guide to Closing the Orgasm Gap

UnknownAccording to an article from Psychology Today “only 25% of women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse.” Even if you can have an orgasm from penile stimulation  there’s no guarantee that a women will experience the big O every time she has sex. Only “about half of women sometimes have orgasms during intercourse. About 20% seldom or ever have orgasms during intercourse. and about 5% never have orgasms period.” Couples have to navigate the difference between their orgasms themselves. Each individual is responsible for their pleasure, but it helps when both partners make their needs known and can openly communicate about what they need. Statistics aside, it’s clear that both men and women need insight and advice for closing the orgasm gap.

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Make Sex Last Longer

last longerEveryday someone asks me how that can last longer during sex, or how they can get their BF to last longer during sex. Everyday I get an email from a woman who wants to orgasm during sex, but doesn’t have enough time or clitoral stimulation to do so.
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Simultaneous Orgasms, Anyone?

Simultaneous OrgasmsIn a perfect world, couples would make love everyday, each session would end with simultaneous orgasms and then you’d watch your mutually favorite television show.

But we know that’s not going to happen- at least the simultaneous orgasm part.

Because, in reality, he’s thinking, “Please, let me get through the next seven minutes without ejaculating,” while she’s thinking, “Please, just this once let me have an orgasm during intercourse.” Not to mention the guys who also have a hard time orgasming during sex. (That happens far more frequently than you think.)

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5 Ways to Prevent Premature Ejaculation

prevent premature ejaculation Wouldn’t it be nice if you could prevent premature ejaculation without imagining your Great-aunt Mildred naked (sorry for the mental image)? Here are 5 things you can do to start having longer, more enjoyable sex.

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