I’ve been hearing about this Magic Wand for well over a decade now. Unfortunately, I was sexually stunted all through my 20’s, meaning I didn’t even buy my first vibrator until my mid 30’s. Mostly because the patriarchy still isn’t 100% on board with women’s pleasure. It doesn’t want sexually empowered lionesses who put our own needs, especially orgasms, first. No, women like us are a serious threat to the power structure and, therefore, have been slut-shamed into oblivion.
This kind of cultural brainwashing, plus my Southern upbringing, resulted in me being a sexual prude for a long ass time. A prude too ashamed to masturbate, even in college, despite the fact my friends were having threesomes by then. The fact I’d never been with a man who’d given me those fireworks-style orgasms probably had something to do with it, too. Either way, ignorance and shame turned me into a sexual Debbie Downer who just assumed orgasms weren’t in the cards for me.
Oh, how the tides have changed! Continue Reading
Every man has a moment in their life where they realize something that changes their life forever: yeah, masturbation is cool and all, but it could be SO MUCH BETTER.
For me, this epiphany happened two years ago when I received my first Fleshlight. It completely changed the way I thought about masturbation and pleasure. Everything I knew about self-love could fit in the palm of my right hand—and sometimes the left hand, you know, for a little variety…
Anyway, the Fleshlight opened up a whole new world for me: the magical world of sex toys. Continue Reading
Here at Sex With Emily, we go through a LOT of sex toys. From penis rings to panty-vibes to high-tech teledildonics (toys that allow people to have sex remotely), we’ve seen them all! It’s not everyday that one comes along and totally sets itself apart from the rest. So when the Doc Johnson Tryst was given the prestigious recognition of “Sex Toy Of The Month” by Cosmopolitan Magazine, we knew we had to give it a try. Continue Reading
Today’s sex toy review show comes with a twist! The Sex With Emily squad takes you through the four main types of orgasms women can experience and shares their favorite toys to help you get there. Continue Reading
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As you all know by now, I’m a big fan of Kegel exercises. I believe that strengthening your pelvic floor muscles is one of the best things you can do you for your sex life! A strengthened pelvic floor leads to stronger vaginal muscles, which help to make you feel tighter down there; it can also lead to women experiencing stronger, more frequent orgasms and, for some women, can actually heighten sexual arousal. Continue Reading
It’s no surprise that we all crave a little heat in our personal and shared sex lives. Whether with a partner or alone, our carnal instincts tend to fan the flames of our blazing infernal libidos. Nothing’s quite as hot as that fire, but the widely-popular Fleshjack Ice sure is heating up the bedroom!
In a highly competitive world of designer Fleshlights and male masturbators, it can be a tricky process selecting the perfect product for you and your manhood. Thankfully, Fleshjack offers a wide variety of simulating sex orifices, all expertly designed to get you off. Everything from porn star molds to aerodynamic designs are available for your personal – or shared – use. And if you’re looking for something that’s cold as fire but hot as ice, prepare to be blown away by the Fleshjack Ice and its crazy-cool presentation! Continue Reading
We all have that one pair of jeans, top, or outfit that fits us just so incredibly perfectly, it hugs your body like it was designed for you. That’s the case for what goes on your body, but what about what goes in? Is this something you’ve ever thought about with a sex toy? I hadn’t… until recently. With one simple twist, the Rave by We-Vibe seems like it was made to perfectly align with my g-spot because well… it was. Most of you women out there (and men) will agree that this is no easy feat, but thanks to the Rave’s asymmetrical design, my g-spot has been feeling more than fine. Continue Reading
Despite my long history of pleasing myself to orgasm, I still have a healthy-sized solo-sex bucket list. Somehow, We-Vibe products have helped me summit masturbatory mountains that I never thought I could climb. Not too long ago, I had my first multiple orgasms with the Touch. It has since had a special place in my heart — I named it Trevor. And now yet another We-Vibe toy has given me my very first blended orgasm. The culprit is their new dual-stimulation vibrator, the Nova. Continue Reading