I’ve been hearing about this Magic Wand for well over a decade now. Unfortunately, I was sexually stunted all through my 20’s, meaning I didn’t even buy my first vibrator until my mid 30’s. Mostly because the patriarchy still isn’t 100% on board with women’s pleasure. It doesn’t want sexually empowered lionesses who put our own needs, especially orgasms, first. No, women like us are a serious threat to the power structure and, therefore, have been slut-shamed into oblivion.
This kind of cultural brainwashing, plus my Southern upbringing, resulted in me being a sexual prude for a long ass time. A prude too ashamed to masturbate, even in college, despite the fact my friends were having threesomes by then. The fact I’d never been with a man who’d given me those fireworks-style orgasms probably had something to do with it, too. Either way, ignorance and shame turned me into a sexual Debbie Downer who just assumed orgasms weren’t in the cards for me.
Oh, how the tides have changed! Continue Reading
Here at Sex With Emily, we go through a LOT of sex toys. From penis rings to panty-vibes to high-tech teledildonics (toys that allow people to have sex remotely), we’ve seen them all! It’s not everyday that one comes along and totally sets itself apart from the rest. So when the Doc Johnson Tryst was given the prestigious recognition of “Sex Toy Of The Month” by Cosmopolitan Magazine, we knew we had to give it a try. 
As you all know by now, I’m a big fan of Kegel exercises. I believe that strengthening your pelvic floor muscles is one of the best things you can do you for your sex life! A strengthened pelvic floor leads to stronger vaginal muscles, which help to make you feel tighter down there; it can also lead to women experiencing stronger, more frequent orgasms and, for some women, can actually heighten sexual arousal. 
The highly coveted G-spot, and how we talk about it, makes it sound like something straight out of a fairy tale. Like unearthing a stash of buried treasure, discovering one’s own G-spot– which oftentimes differs for each of us– can unlock the difference between an orgasm and a near out-of-body experience.
Despite my long history of pleasing myself to orgasm, I still have a healthy-sized solo-sex bucket list. Somehow, We-Vibe products have helped me summit masturbatory mountains that I never thought I could climb. Not too long ago, I had my first multiple orgasms with the Touch. It has since had a special place in my heart — I named it Trevor. And now yet another We-Vibe toy has given me my very first blended orgasm. The culprit is their new dual-stimulation vibrator, the Nova. 
