The modern age lifestylers (aka swingers) are far different from the ’70s swingers at key parties. If you come to a party, you’re not expected or forced to throw your keys into a fish bowl and participate. We are much more open, welcoming, and most of all, nonjudgemental. We welcome anyone and everyone – from the curious and timid to the wild veterans, as long as you are respectful and obey the rules…
For about three years now, I have been partaking in lifestyle (swingers for those who are unaware) and Kink events. Needless to say, I’ve never turned back. If I do attend a regular vanilla party, I find myself asking the question, “so when is everyone going to start getting naked?”
One of the questions I get asked the most (and a question that comes up in the Sex With Emily inbox more than you’d think) is, “how do I get into the scene?”
The sex community is quite discrete, but once you have your foot in the door, you step into a beautiful black hole of possibilities.
Your first experience at a clothing-optional resort is going to be a tad awkward – you’re going to be naked in front of a bunch of strangers.
But what if you went to one, and realized there was a bit more hanging out than you expected?
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her first unexpected experience at a resort for the “lifestyle” in her Down to There blog…
Having the courage to ask questions shows that you care about improving your life; whether it’s your love or sex life, you’ve identified something that just isn’t going right, and you want it to be better. On today’s show, Emily is answering all of your quandaries to help give you the knowledge you need for a life full of loving—both in and out of the bedroom.
In this podcast, Emily is joined by married couple and real-life swingers Holli & Michael! This sexy twosome is used to sharing all the intimate details of living the “lifestyle” on their number one Playboy Radio show SWING, and today they’re bringing all their romantic and sexual wisdom to the Sex With Emily studio. Continue Reading
Could your sex life use a little extra spice? In today’s show, Emily is providing step-by-step guidelines to turn your troubled sex life around. Whether your marriage has reached a sexual standstill or you’re having trouble sliding into “second base,” Emily is here to help you out of your rut. Continue Reading
Did you know that there’s an estimated 15 million swingers in the world? This week, Emily interviews Daniel Stern, author of Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle. Listen in on how a single man learned to navigate “The Lifestyle” and pick up some specific tips on how you can add a little spice to your sex life. Daniel shares his insider experiences and tips that we can use in any relationship – whether swinging, married, dating or single.
Emily and Anderson catch up and we hear all about Emily’s sold out “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler. Plus, the pair dare to ask Dan about some of his most crazy stories about swinging. Prepare yourself for dominatrixes, orgies and cuckolding gone wrong!
Daniel shares how The Lifestyle took him from being “bad at sex” to a master in the bedroom. He shares his best tips for performing oral sex on a woman, how to date and still be a swinger and the best websites to use when you’re looking for a partner (or partners). Also, he explains why you might have the wrong impression of what a swinger really is and the pros and cons of being a swinger. What’s the best way to introduce a new partner to your sexual past? Do all swingers have ponytails? Is The Lifestyle right for you? Those questions answered and more in the latest episode of Sex With Emily!
The sticky subject of ejaculation is covered in painstaking detail today by Emily, Menace, and their loyal, very opinionated listeners. From the where’s and why’s to the do’s and don’t, the coming and going of male climaxes are dissected and discussed. Continue Reading