Over-analyzation is an issue many of us struggle with. And in your sex and dating life, it can be causing your downfall. On today’s show, Emily is joined by co-host Anderson to help you switch from your toughest critic to your biggest fan!
In the latest Sex With Emily podcast, we’re tackling some of your most personal sex concerns. How do you take your sexual adventures to the next level? When do you tell your partner about your virginity? Do women REALLY care about circumcision? Emily answers these questions and more in listener emails.
Surprise, people are actually collecting samples of emotional reactions to first time sexual experiences. A study from Illinois State University, published in the most recent Journal of Sex Research, examined in detail questionnaires filled in by 5,769 university students over the 23-year period between 1990 to 2012. And the results are very encouraging.
For all of us, men and women, losing your virginity has become a significantly better experience over time.
The study set out to examine the gender differences between men and women in the experience of losing your virginity. Not surprisingly, perhaps, “men experienced significantly more pleasure and anxiety than women, whereas women experienced more guilt than men. The largest gender difference found was for pleasure, although the effect size was very large for all three emotions.”
Is it possible to have a breast orgasm? Yes, yes it is. It’s time to play with breasts like a grownup (motor-boating being an often fun exception). Emily breaks down the do’s and don’ts of playing with the breasts. FYI don’t twist her nipples, slap her breasts, or jiggle them, unless she’s into that kind of stuff (she’s probably not). You may be asking yourself why breast play matter so much. Well, women love getting their breasts played with (some more than others) and if you do touch them the right way she could even have a breast orgasm… Continue Reading
Background: 34-year-old guy, virgin, never had a relationship. This is due to my practically lifelong struggle with major clinical depression. The issues are largely resolved and I feel great! I’m now out there trying to meet the right girl.Positive qualities: I’m handsome, make $80k a year good personality, responsible, and am fit. Negative qualities: I can’t think of any. Continue Reading