You, Lucky Virgins…

b423363c96a13979d043b436f535776bSurprise, people are actually collecting samples of emotional reactions to first time sexual experiences. A study from Illinois State University, published in the most recent Journal of Sex Research, examined in detail questionnaires filled in by 5,769 university students over the 23-year period between 1990 to 2012. And the results are very encouraging.

For all of us, men and women, losing your virginity has become a significantly better experience over time.

The study set out to examine the gender differences between men and women in the experience of losing your virginity. Not surprisingly, perhaps, “men experienced significantly more pleasure and anxiety than women, whereas women experienced more guilt than men. The largest gender difference found was for pleasure, although the effect size was very large for all three emotions.”

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The Sex Talk

the sex talk If I gave you the sex talk instead of your mother…

1. Sex can be a lot of funespecially when you like the person you’re having sex with. (Let’s not get into hate sex right now).

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SWE – Like a Virgin

Emily’s inbox has been getting swamped with emails from virgins of all ages lately, so today’s episode is dedicated to helping them join the coital club, laying out what to expect, how to prepare, and why this big step might not be so big after all. Virgins’ partners get advised too, to make their lovers’ first times magical. Or… at least, less awkward than their own.

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Video Podcast – Bad Boys & Good Orgasms

 

Enjoy our first video podcast with TradioV, you can watch it below. Emily talks about narrowly avoiding a threesome with a self-proclaimed “polyamorous slut” on Miss Advised.  Menace shares his theory that any woman on the planet can get laid. Emily agrees that it’s easier for women but it’s difficult for many women to find someone they actually want to sleep with. Emily answers listener’s questions about virginity, expanded orgasms, and bad boys…

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SWE – Her Big “O”

Emily advises not going to a strip club on a first date like she did on Miss Advised. Emily gives sex advice to a 34-year-old virgin who wants to find love, to a 15-year-old girl who wants to learn how to have her first orgasm, and a 30-year-old female who has tried everything possible to orgasm to no avail. Emily shares personal stories about her first ever orgasm and what it takes to get her there.

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Episode 289 – Hand Jobs

How does Emily loves Menace? Today she counts the ways and explains how to give the most amazing handjobs on earth!

Questions of the day include: Should you ‘thank your wank’? Does a Groupon deal belong on a date? We learn what lesbians want in bed, how to have sex with a virgin, and how to steer clear of indecent exposure. A bad date ends in handcuffs, a possible Miss Universe goes commando, and Cheaterville.com gets Jersey Shore’s help.

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Episode 281 – Your Cheatin’ Heart

Apart from going on Jerry Springer, what can you do if you suspect your partner is cheating on you? Today Emily walks you through the signs your partner may be cheating, and how you can confront them responsibly.

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