We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation.

A game-changer for pleasure, performance, and yes, even pelvic health.

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

On today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want. 

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Sexual mismatches, squirting surprises, and shocking kinks—I tackle your wildest sex dilemmas in this Hotline Calls episode.

Is your partner the asshole in bed—or are you? I break down trust, kinks, and oral sex drama.

Out with the old, in with what truly serves you.

Struggling with erections? Never orgasmed? Want mind-blowing prostate pleasure? I’ve got you—let’s talk!