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On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it?

You’ve heard this one before: the sexiest quality in the world is confidence. On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m joined by my dear friend and former co-host Menace from The Woody Show, as we talk confidence, jealousy, What happens when you adore your partner, but can’t stop thinking about their high body count? Or want to have hot phone sex, but don’t know where to start? We talk through both. How about when you feel too short to find a great partner, or don’t know how to be dominant in bed? We help you think through both

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation.

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

On today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want. 

Is social media blocking your intimacy? Learn how scrolling impacts your confidence and connection—and how to bring the spark back.

Celebrity divorce attorney Laura Wasser joins me to reveal the secrets of lasting love, prenups, and the real reasons relationships fail.

Stuck reaching orgasm? Today, I’m tackling real obstacles and sharing powerful tips to help you let go, embrace pleasure, and finally finish!

Bored of the usual date night? Get playful with sexy, creative ideas that build intimacy and spark desire in todays episode. Listen now!

On todays episode of Sex With Emily, Dr. Wednesday Martin joins me to dive into menopause, sex, and why your 50s are the hottest decade yet!