Have you ever flicked the bean or polished the pole but barely limped to the finish line, or even quit the race halfway through? The truth is, not all masturbation is created equal. Luckily, the key to successful self-pleasure is totally in your hands. It all starts with getting into the right mindset.
Masturbation is as much a mental game as it is a physical one. So as we come to the close of Masturbation May, here are some tips to get your head in the right space for self-pleasure.
So the big V day is here and you’re…totally unprepared. We get it, January is hard, February is cold and then the next thing you know: it’s a last minute Valentine’s day.
But, you don’t have to let your sweetheart down just because you forgot to preorder from Flowers.com. Here are some last minute Valentines day presents to keep cupid happy and your lover happier. Because on this holiday, more than any other, it’s the thought that counts!
NSYNC versus Backstreet Boys, Star Wars versus Star Trek, the dress was blue and black versus white and gold: these are the types of debates that’ll go down in the history books. But alongside those also comes one of the hottest topics of all…
Music or no music during sex?
If you have a solid sex song medley put together, it really can turn up the heat. So, we’ve put together a playlist of a few noteworthy jams that can totally seal the deal.
(And if it’s not so much your thing, then be prepared for some major inspo that just may change your mind!)
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Sex and play are a natural combination. The more playfulness you can bring to the sex you are having, the better. Not only because it makes sex better, but also because studies show that play enhances overall emotional well-being.
As the sex therapist and bestselling author, Dr. Mike Dow said, “Sex is the way that adults play.”
So let’s get playing…
If you’re anything like us, you appreciate the value of a solid sex playlist. It’s the soundtrack that gets you in the mood, covers up any potentially unwanted (but completely natural) sounds, and that gets our bodies groovin’. Especially when your favorite song is in the mix, you sometimes feel yourself trying to sync your movements to the rhythm of the beat. Although we do like some things to be hard during intercourse, sticking to a rhythm is one we’d like to be, well, simpler.
Usually, sex makes sounds. Sometimes, it’s nice to cut through the moaning, grunting, squishing and slapping with some good old-fashioned music. Whether you’re just trying to conceal your loud love-making from your roommates in the living room, or you’re really looking to set the sexy-time mood, having a sex playlist is essential. Continue Reading