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Explore & Play
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The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette

I’m not talking about technique – I’m talking manners.

Anal Play
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How to Use Toys During Sex

Using sex toys with a partner can feel intimidating. I discuss beginner-friendly toy play ideas for oral sex, intercourse & even anal play.

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Fingering & Handjobs: The Art of Hand Play

Today, I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a handjob, and use your hands with sexual intention.

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Positions
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Top 6 Sex Positions to Use With a Sex Toy

Let’s normalize using toys during sex.

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6 Essential Sex Toy Hacks

Don’t let the box instructions stop you from experimenting. Chances are, your current sex toys (or future sex toys) have surprise talents. 

Communication
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Hotline Calls: My Partner Doesn’t Orgasm

In today’s Hotline Calls episode, I’m taking all your pressing sex questions, from casual sex to what to do when your partner doesn’t orgasm.

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How to Heat Up Your Temperature Play

4 intro-level ways to bring temperature play into sex, whether you’re getting down with a partner, or your hot self. 

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Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials

Here’s what you actually need on your trip, for a guaranteed hot time. 

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Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?

The single tool that can make all the difference.