Sex is like driving. To get going, you need to get turned on and warmed up, getting from point A (arousal) to point B (Pleasure-town). Sex, however, is the one ride where you’ll want to take the scenic route instead of the shortcut. Sometimes though, excitement gets the best of us, and well… The destination was reached way too soon. In fact, your partner might have gotten left back at the 2nd pit stop. As devastating as this can be, it happens.
There is a way to get you back on the right track. All aboard the Promescent Train because we’re heading to Pleasure-Town! Continue Reading
Except for the small percentage of people who do not take utter joy in eating, the key to most of our hearts is through the good ole’ stomach! I’m talking food, food, food! If you think about it, the majority of dates center around meals, whether it’s a dinner, a lunch, or even a quick snack perhaps. And, if the date is going well, there could possibly be the option for dessert—to go, of course. Continue Reading
Ahh, technology. It really is a wonder how far it’s come. We’ve gone from word of mouth, to written letters, to telegraphs, to phone calls, to texts, and finally instant messaging. With all of these new methods for speaking with each other, it makes sense that the way we have sex would adapt with it. No longer do you need to even be in the same room as someone to get off, thanks to the development of phone sex, sexting, Skype sex, and of course, the newfangled practice of sending nudes. Continue Reading
Consent. A seemingly simple concept that, for many reasons, is largely misunderstood. How can something as easy as a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer be so misconstrued, so often? Contrary to popular belief, ignorance is not always bliss. You may think you know when there’s consent, but unless you’re 100 percent on the same page as your potential sexual partner, the actual act of sex with them remains strictly a possibility. Continue Reading
For those of you who are least partially keen to the fact that great sex involves MORE than just sex, I congratulate you. You’re halfway there! Most of you are thinking, duh, foreplay, the backbone of any successful sexual bout.
However, there is another section of sex, one that is equally important, that even the most savvy of lovers are not privy to. It’s called afterplay, and it just might be the thing that your bedroom game is missing. Continue Reading
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So for that, we say THANK YOU. We wouldn’t be here without you.
In light 2016 ending, we asked you to tell us what you learned this year, what you want to learn in the new year, and what posts really helped you rock your bedroom activities. So, in case you missed them, here are the TOP 5 blog posts from this sex-tastic year:
The holidays can be a rough time of year. You have to save money to buy gifts, plan out dinners for family visits, make accommodations for traveling, all whilst having a cheerful heir about you. Geez. I’m already ready for a nap. But, there can be use of all this newfound frustration. Channel your inner aggressions towards the place where dreams and orgasms come true— the bedroom. It’s time to have some of that primal, rough, and carnal sex that’s built into our DNA!
The holidays are right around the corner. Soon airports and roadways will be full of travelers trying to reunite with family and lovers alike, which can only mean one thing: everyone will be asking about your love life. As if the commercials, songs, and couples’ advertising weren’t reminder enough about your singledom, never fret! Your family is there to remind you once more.
Despite the looming threat of climate change, winter is still on its way (kind of) and along with it comes another change in season. For whatever reason, we are more inclined to stay in when “the weather outside is frightful.” Maybe it’s because the lack of sun is depriving us of energy and driving up our melatonin levels, or maybe it’s the appeal of cuddling up with a cup of hot chocolate. Whatever the case may be, it’s clear that the pumpkin spice lattes are upon us and so is cuffing season. Continue Reading
For most of us, when we think of the spirit Thanksgiving and how to celebrate it, we tend to focus on the first half of the word. We want to say thank you to everyone in our life that has helped us, been there for us, and has brought joy to our lives. One of the best ways to say thank you is in what you give back, whether it’s a tangible gift, an unexpected trip, or a moment that can be cherished for years to come. In the spirit of Sex-Giving, it’s time to give it everything you’ve got in the bedroom to say, “hey baby, you’re amazing and I want you to know it and feel it!” So, what better way to give your partner something sexy and special than a full on strip tease! Continue Reading