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large-2Consent. A seemingly simple concept that, for many reasons, is largely misunderstood. How can something as easy as a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer be so misconstrued, so often? Contrary to popular belief, ignorance is not always bliss. You may think you know when there’s consent, but unless you’re 100 percent on the same page as your potential sexual partner, the actual act of sex with them remains strictly a possibility. Continue Reading

large-1For those of you who are least partially keen to the fact that great sex involves MORE than just sex, I congratulate you. You’re halfway there! Most of you are thinking, duh, foreplay, the backbone of any successful sexual bout.

However, there is another section of sex, one that is equally important, that even the most savvy of lovers are not privy to. It’s called afterplay, and it just might be the thing that your bedroom game is missing. Continue Reading

cupcakeWe wrote them; you read them. It may seem like we’re doing most of the work, but in reality, it’s because of all of you readers, listeners, and subscribers out there that we do what we do. We hear your concerns, your questions, and your fantasies, and try to put out content that will give you answers, peace of mind, and the courage to explore all things sex!

So for that, we say THANK YOU. We wouldn’t be here without you.

In light 2016 ending, we asked you to tell us what you learned this year, what you want to learn in the new year, and what posts really helped you rock your bedroom activities. So, in case you missed them, here are the TOP 5 blog posts from this sex-tastic year:

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scratchingThe holidays can be a rough time of year. You have to save money to buy gifts, plan out dinners for family visits, make accommodations for traveling, all whilst having a cheerful heir about you. Geez. I’m already ready for a nap. But, there can be use of all this newfound frustration. Channel your inner aggressions towards the place where dreams and orgasms come true— the bedroom. It’s time to have some of that primal, rough, and carnal sex that’s built into our DNA!

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mindy-singleThe holidays are right around the corner. Soon airports and roadways will be full of travelers trying to reunite with family and lovers alike, which can only mean one thing: everyone will be asking about your love life. As if the commercials, songs, and couples’ advertising weren’t reminder enough about your singledom, never fret! Your family is there to remind you once more.

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handcuffsDespite the looming threat of climate change, winter is still on its way (kind of) and along with it comes another change in season. For whatever reason, we are more inclined to stay in when “the weather outside is frightful.” Maybe it’s because the lack of sun is depriving us of energy and driving up our melatonin levels, or maybe it’s the appeal of cuddling up with a cup of hot chocolate.  Whatever the case may be, it’s clear that the pumpkin spice lattes are upon us and so is cuffing season. Continue Reading

tumblr_mqg72anf091qdq3ayo1_500For most of us, when we think of the spirit Thanksgiving and how to celebrate it, we tend to focus on the first half of the word. We want to say thank you to everyone in our life that has helped us, been there for us, and has brought joy to our lives. One of the best ways to say thank you is in what you give back, whether it’s a tangible gift, an unexpected trip, or a moment that can be cherished for years to come. In the spirit of Sex-Giving, it’s time to give it everything you’ve got in the bedroom to say, “hey baby, you’re amazing and I want you to know it and feel it!” So, what better way to give your partner something sexy and special than a full on strip tease! Continue Reading

tips-for-a-happy-and-healthy-vaginaThe vagina: a warm, moist cave of pleasure and mystery, surrounded by the wondrous valley that is the vulva. Women love them; men love them; but do we all really understand them? Most of us would like to say that the answer to that question is yes. Unfortunately for a portion of those poor souls, their knowledge barely scratches the clitoral hood. Just like a woman’s mind, vaginas can be hard to read. Even if you’ve been up close and personal with dozens, the complexity of the vaginal area cannot fully be conquered without some semblance of outside facts. Continue Reading

1292551583526916423As much as we would love for every guy to be an expert in cunnilingus, that dream is a far cry from reality. We know you’re not  mind readers, and vaginas are about as similar as snowflakes. What works for one dame may not work for them all.

When done correctly, oral sex gives all the parts of the vulva the attention they deserve, and shows us that you want us to be just as sexually satisfied as yourselves. Needless to say, in most of your relationships, being less than amateur at going down on your girl can cause sexual chemistry to sizzle out. Continue Reading

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