Once you start having sex, after all your experiences, partners, and any mishaps that have probably happened along the way, you start to develop “moves” or a routine. You see what works for you, what may work for most of your partners, and you stick to that because, well, it’s what you know.
That’s a big reason why we do what we do here–– people are always looking to spice things up, change the game, perfect it. One of the best ways to do that is to open up the dialogue and see what others have to say, not just the experts.
Biting. Some people absolutely hate it, some completely love it. So much so, it’s pivotal to their sexual arousal. They even have a name for it: odaxelagina. It’s only right that the word be a mouthful.
Although, in its extreme cases, this fetish is normally associated with sadism, masochism, and vampire fetishes, Dr. Alfred Kinsey found that almost half of all people experience some type of sexual arousal from biting.
Babies are cute, little bundles of joy that become the apple of our eye. But after 9 months of caring a growing human inside of you, pushing it out during labor, and staying up long, exhausting hours, sex usually gets thrown on the back burner. Even when your doctor gives you the sex green light, none of these things are a great recipe for a high sex drive.
When it comes to sexual surroundings, most encounters happen in the bedroom, or at least a room of some kind. Sometimes, though, we yearn for something a little more… dangerous, so to speak.
Why do you think so many people want to join the Mile High club?
I can tell you, it’s not for comfortability. It’s for the thrill!
Alternative sex: it can mean many things. Some say it’s an alternative to having sex, but for us, we like to think of it as any action that requires you to get out of your own sexual box. August was a month full of sexual discovery, from fetish experimentation to shower sex to finally finding the g-spot!
Sex is pleasurable; it’s hot; it’s a stress reliever– it’s human nature. Although depicted or fantasized about in romantic and sultry ways, most of the time, there’s going to be an unexpected moment that makes both you and your partner have a good laugh. Because, well, sex is funny.
People are always looking to spice up their sex life. After a while, things get stale, and for some, the imagination is lacking. It’s hard to come up with fun and exciting ideas to bring back that insatiable lust.
To really dig up those passionate pangs, sometimes you have to get that adrenaline pumping and take a little walk on the wild side.
Masturbation Month is long over, but the self-love never truly ends. Don’t think that we’ve forgotten about your favorite routines that you sent in, though! There were so many submissions (and so many that got us hot and bothered) that it took us awhile and a little bit of a cool down to get through them all.
I’ve done it. After having the same sexual New Year’s resolution for two consecutive years, I have FINALLY popped my sex toy cherry… During sex that is. So, for all those hopeless souls out there who think they’ll never achieve the resolutions they’ve set out for (specifically the sexual ones), you WILL get there. It just takes time and the right person to come along.
What toy finally got its debut in my partnered sex life? The We-Vibe Pivot, a cock ring of orgasmic proportions. How was it, you ask? Well, let me tell you…