Have you ever heard the saying “You don’t buy the car without taking it for a test drive”? Most of the time, this age old adage is used in favor of premarital sex… An important topic for another day, no doubt.
In this moment, however, I’m applying it to living with a significant other—A journey I recently embarked upon. And let me tell you, if I didn’t believe in the car theory pre-cohabitation, I certainly do now. Continue Reading
There has been a noticeable trend in sex and relationships: People are having more sex and less relationships.
While this may not hold true for all, you can’t deny that the hookup culture truly is booming. Rather than jumping from one relationship to another, singles are keeping their options open &their commitments minimal.
This can be a great way to explore your sexuality and figure out what you like, both in the bedroom and in a partner… If you can figure out how to navigate the murky waters of no-strings-attached sex. Continue Reading
Ah, the holidays. We are all conditioned to believe this is the most wonderful time of the year and sure, it has its moments. But if you just so happen to be single, the holidays might take on an entirely new meaning.
Every song, every commercial, and every movie on basic cable paints a picture of the holidays being a time to celebrate with your significant other, leaving uncoupled folks everywhere wondering “What about me? Where’s my holiday happy ending?”
Ah, the art of the tease. It’s the best way to start up something steamy and the longer you savor the suspense, the better.
You know those delicious moments leading up to sex?
Imagine if you could prolong that sexual tension, the sizzling sense of anticipation and draw it out until you just can’t take it anymore.
You have to have each other right then, right there, right now. Continue Reading
Have you ever heard that saying “Sex is like pizza – Even when it’s bad, it’s still good”?
While this may be true for most, there is one exception to that rule: Oral sex.
When done correctly, a blow job can be the perfect weapon to have in your arsenal.
In a culture fixated on efficiency, is embracing the quickie the next sexual step? We think so, and here’s how to do it.
What are your thoughts on morning sex when one person just isn’t a morning person?
My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but he gets up early for work and sometimes tries to initiate morning sex.
I have never been a morning person, and until I get a cup of coffee, I am not very nice.
We have had morning sex before and it was great, but I feel like he would like to do it more often. What would you suggest?
I like to consider myself a fairly sexually educated woman, but I have NO idea what to do when it comes to being on top during sex.
The few times I have tried it, I felt so awkward that it ended up killing the mood.
Now I’m worried that my inexperience will be obvious to my next partner…
Are there any tips you can give me to help me get better at girl-on-top?
First off, I learn so much from your podcasts, thank you!
I am 36 and recently separated from a 16-year relationship.
After waiting eight months, I decided I was ready to start dating again.
A few colleagues of mine recommended some dating apps, so I checked them out. I went on two Tindr dates and they went horribly.
Then I gave it one last shot and started talking to a guy six years older than me. We have been talking for two weeks but haven’t met in person yet. So far, our connection has been great!
So here’s my question for you: Is there a certain timeline to meet this guy and move forward from there? What do you suggest when it comes to going from cyber- and phone-chatting to meeting IRL?
Laura, 36, Texas. Continue Reading
If you’re the proud owner of your very own Fleshlight, you’re familiar with the wonders already.
How could you not be? The Fleshlight is truly a stroke of genius (pun intended). It’s patented skin-like material, unique suction-controlling design, and discreet appearance wins everyone over. It’s a must-have for any penis!
But did you ever stop to consider how the #1 selling sex toy for men came to be?