Unfortunately, it’s extremely difficult to orgasm at the same exact time as your partner, but as long as you both get what you need, it doesn’t matter if they necessarily match up. Sometimes, that alone is hard enough to achieve.

We’ve all been there; we’re having amazing sex with our partners, coming so close to that big orgasmic crescendo only to be cut short by a premature release. Whether we were on the receiving or giving end of this, it can be kind of a bummer.  Continue Reading

lifebuzz-2bd9bbd1135c56e3da2a056c11bc8f27-originalWe like to think that labels don’t matter, but every recurring casual hook-up reaches a point where its participants have to “define the relationship”. Are you on the road to exclusive dating bliss? Are you better off keeping it casual? Or do you fall into that complicated gray area we like to call friends with benefits? If your situation most closely resembles option 3, then defining the relationship is just the beginning… Continue Reading

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On today’s show Emily is joined by sex educators and toy aficionados April Lampert and Amy Baldwin to talk all things sex. Together, the ladies cover a range of topics, from sexual awakenings to oral sex abroad to the curious rise in anal licking. The three trade hot stories, insights and candid experiences to shed some light on the lives of sexperts. Amy and April also assist in answering your emails: Should you disclose past infidelities to a new date? And when it comes to condoms and casual sex, is there any room for negotiation?

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large-2Consent. A seemingly simple concept that, for many reasons, is largely misunderstood. How can something as easy as a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer be so misconstrued, so often? Contrary to popular belief, ignorance is not always bliss. You may think you know when there’s consent, but unless you’re 100 percent on the same page as your potential sexual partner, the actual act of sex with them remains strictly a possibility. Continue Reading

large-1For those of you who are least partially keen to the fact that great sex involves MORE than just sex, I congratulate you. You’re halfway there! Most of you are thinking, duh, foreplay, the backbone of any successful sexual bout.

However, there is another section of sex, one that is equally important, that even the most savvy of lovers are not privy to. It’s called afterplay, and it just might be the thing that your bedroom game is missing. Continue Reading

eat-me-appleThe new year is always a good time to evaluate who you’ve become and who you want to be. We get a clean slate to make new goals and do the things we’ve been procrastinating for far too long. Maybe this is the year that you finally ask your girlfriend to move in, get out of that toxic relationship or stop drinking every Taco Tuesday away. Truly, anything is possible… Well, sort of.

It’s no secret that the majority of resolutions get dropped after a couple of months, never to be picked up again. Many people will give up, accepting that it’s just not going to happen, but did you ever stop to think that maybe the problem is actually the goals we’re setting for ourselves? Continue Reading

woman-orgasm1Q: Dear Emily

I’ve been with my boyfriend for around eight months and have still never had a REAL orgasm during sex. And as if this isn’t bad enough, I’ve been faking it! I know—it’s terrible! My partner has no idea, I just get so in my head about it and I want to make him feel good about his performance, but now I’m sick of performing. I want the real deal and I know I need to be honest with him, I just don’t know how to confess without hurting his feelings. How do I approach this?

Thanks, A Continue Reading

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