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October Sexoscope

Welcome to October, my star crossed lovers! Can you feel the energy shifting in the air?  This month we’re celebrating and exploring sexual fantasies, so get ready for shorter days and longer nights to unravel your dark desires. Not sure where to get started? Let the October Sexoscope be your guide.

October has a few important and significant Moon events that are sure to open doors to understanding ourselves and the world around us,  including a Blue Moon on Halloween. As we come closer to this magical night, we should all take advantage of the opportunity to go deeper in our spiritual journeys by reflecting and refreshing on our present days.

Start this month with new things you want to integrate into your life and letting go of the old. By October 13, Mercury goes retrograde in Scorpio, making it important to address intimacy and vulnerability in our relationships. The Blue Moon on October 31st is in Taurus, and therefore destined to awaken our sensual wants and needs. Try not to be stubborn, but instead authentically open yourself up to your desires.

Aries

Looking for something to amp up your sex life? Time to bring play into pleasure, Aries. Bring the battle into your bedroom by playing new athletic sex games. There’s no winners or losers when it’s fun for everyone.

Taurus

Words mean everything during this season, so don’t let anyone get them twisted! While you might enjoy luscious gifts, you’ll really enjoy some delectable sex talk. Suggest that your partner whisper their desires before the fun begins in order to amp up anticipation.

Gemini

Sex isn’t about the destination, but the duality of curiosity and pleasure. And who knows duality more than my dear Geminis? Go on a sexual discovery journey with yourself or someone you would like to know better. 

Cancer

There’s a lot going on in the world and that can be so overwhelming for your emotions and energies. If you feel like hiding under the covers, please in a warm body or great sex toy. Remember, your vulnerability makes you stronger!

Leo

It’s all about you, dear lions. Bring self-pleasure to a new level and, if you are brave enough, show someone how you like to do it best. Focus on how you’re feeling and keep fueling the flames that heat you up.

Virgo

Don’t deny yourself the timeouts you need to get in touch with your massive sensuality. A bath with scents and candles is in order. Look into the ways to take your sexual self-care to the next level and then translate that love to your relationships.

Libra

It seems like you’ve been out of harmony in your personal and private spheres, making it hard for you to feel centered. If you need to rebalance, try a new position and a new safe word to help you find yourself again. (After all, it is your season.) You can also find some new toys to add to your collection and make yourself feel extra special.

Scorpio 

This season is the perfect playground for your dark desires. You can talk more deeply in intimate ways, and be more persuasive than ever before about the perks of sexual commitment. Express what you want with your partner, who is sure to aim to please your hunger.

Sagittarius

It seems like you’ve been either restless or looking for new ways to open doors to your fantasies. If you can’t leave the house, at least you can spend time seeing exquisitely produced erotic dramas and reading some sizzling novels. Curling up to new sexy practices will inspire your curiosity.

Capricorn

Don’t let the bad news into your bed–you have control over more than you think. Channel your inner dom this season; make sure your sex life is all about what’s good for you and whomever you desire. 

Aquarius

Setting boundaries will lead to better sex, dear Aquarius. Turn off the noise and turn on the poise. If anxiety or too many thoughts are invading your head during sex, it’s time to take a breath to enjoy the moment. Let your sex partner(s) know how to help you slow down and get out of your head. 

Pisces

If ever there was a time to daydream about sex, it is now. Whenever and wherever you can, lose yourself in a moment of sexual bliss recall. What fantasies do you go to when you let your mind wander? As a water sign, let your thoughts ebb and flow into your next move.

Jennifer Freed PhD is the best selling author of Use Your Planets Wisely and a renowned psychological astrologer and social and emotional education trainer. She has spent over thirty years consulting clients and businesses world wide on psychological, spiritual, and educational topics. She has served as the clinical director of Pacifica Graduate Institute and is national consultant for EMDR (Post Traumatic Growth Therapies).

​Dr. Freed’s passion is to awaken the potentials of each client and collective and to guide them to make lasting contributions to their communities.  

Happy September everybody! As we shift from summer into fall, many of us are taking the time to adjust to new routines, fresh wardrobes, and changing temperatures. Luckily, with the sun in the practical sign of Virgo, it’s also the perfect time to focus on yourself and get organized for the remainder of the year.

But be aware—with Mars in fiery Aries, this is also shaping up to be a month of war. Everyone seems to have an opinion and aggression may be fervent. (Especially with an upcoming election!) Instead of letting the irritation get to you, make the shift toward positive and courageous energy. Healthy and consensual sex can be a great outlet for letting out stress and built up aggravation. No matter your sign, this is a great month to turn on your own sexiness and claim whatever (and whoever) is appealing to you!

Read below for your September Sexoscope: 

Aries (March 21-April 19)

When you are completely confident about what you need, and also fully interested in the needs of others, you are irresistible. Don’t let anyone dim your fireworks this month—just tell them to wait patiently for the grand finale.

Taurus (April 20-May 20)

When you inhabit your body as a sacred unending pleasure temple, you enchant people to their core. When you crave lusciousness—turn inward.

Gemini (May 21-June 20)

When you reach for the level of transformational conversation you bewitch people. Don’t let common thoughts or ordinary banter get in the way of your maverick brilliance!

Cancer (June 21-July 22)

When you are as soft and yummy as a cookie (but also as sturdy as a mountain), folks can’t help but pursue you. Never compromise your boundaries to make others like you. You are the sweetness worth behaving for.

Leo  (July 23-August 22)

When you crack open your heart and let the light pour out to make others shine, people can’t get enough of you. Your generous love is a floodlight of seduction.

Virgo (August 23-September 22)

When you let go of perfection and highlight every flaw as sheer genius, you become a siren of attraction. You know better than anyone how to look through the cracks and see where the light comes in.

Libra (September 23-October 22)

When you realize that beauty is built by appreciating life you bathe in a regal glow. Others want to be with those who know the secret is not to have what you want but to truly love what you have.

Scorpio (October 23-November 21)

When you face darkness like an old friend, and bring the hope back like a giant street lamp, others find you utterly beguiling. Fearless to feel, you make people want to dive in.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)

When you speak your truths, not as swords, but as vulnerable invitations you become spellbinding. You never need to promote what is unflinchingly authentic.

Capricorn (December 22-January 20)

When you lend your immense competence in service of the ultimate good,  and you take time to smell the orgasmic roses – you become a walking aphrodisiac. Don’t let doing become the boss of being and all the oysters will be yours.

Aquarius (January 21-February 18)

When you are as truly empathetic as you are utterly disarming, people will fall at your feet. When the sky blue meets the turquoise of the deep sea, no one can resist.

Pisces (February 19-March 20)

When your dreamy nature grounds in earthly manifestation everyone wants a delectable nibble of you. Maintaining a mature focus in your life, undistracted by shallow temptations, leads you to your erotic superpower.

Jennifer Freed PhD is the best selling author of Use Your Planets Wisely and a renowned psychological astrologer and social and emotional education trainer. She has spent over thirty years consulting clients and businesses world wide on psychological, spiritual, and educational topics. She has served as the clinical director of Pacifica Graduate Institute and is national consultant for EMDR (Post Traumatic Growth Therapies).

​Dr. Freed’s passion is to awaken the potentials of each client and collective and to guide them to make lasting contributions to their communities.  

march blog sex with emilyNow that March is upon us, we dive deeper into Pisces season. This, of course, means more and more emotions! It’s the last sign of the zodiac, and that means we can approach the month with a sense of accomplishment, and a readiness to enter a new phase. 

No matter what your sign, this blog will give you the astrological guidance you need to harness the power of your sign in your sex life this month!

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december blog sex with emilyDramatic and transformational Scorpio season is over, making way for expansive and visionary Sagittarius.

To celebrate, my Sex-O-Scopes are here to help you embrace the season.

Use this guide to harness the astrological influences of the month for your sexual benefit.

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mars venus blog sex with emilyWelcome to Part Two of my Using Mars and Venus Placements for Sex and Love Astrology lesson!

If you haven’t read through part one, do so now by clicking here.

Now that you understand a little about what Mars and Venus planets rule in astrology, as well as what your own personal placement are, we are going to get pretty juicy. 

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If you’ve been reading my sex-o-scopes for a while, you’ve probably noticed me mention Mars and Venus placements.

Most people with a cursory knowledge of Astrology are familiar with the concept of a “sun sign” (sometimes also referred to as your “zodiac sign”), but that’s about it. Not very comprehensive, which also means not very helpful when it comes to using Astrology for love and sex.

So today we are going to dive a little deeper into how to use astrology to improve your love and sex life. Welcome to the beautiful world of Mars and Venus placements.   Continue Reading

astrological compatibility blog sex with emilyAstrological compatibility …  is it a real thing? 

I get this question a lot in my work, as people are trying to use astrology as a new tool in determining compatibility.

It’s no surprise either, especially considering the current prevalence of astrology in mainstream media.

But how do you figure out where to begin?

Well, today we are going to explore the concept of being astrologically compatible with someone.

Plus, I’ll reveal which are the best matches for each sign. 

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