Once upon a time, I took a man’s virginity. This isn’t odd or strange or unprecedented in all documentation of human history, nor was it a “first” for me. The thing that made this experience, and the ensuing pseudo-relationship, remarkable was that this virgin (let’s call him Victor) was 32 years old.
Victor was not only a virgin of sex, he was a virgin of dating, relationships, ANY sexual activity and even close friendships with women. I was the first naked woman he has ever seen in real life, and I was the first person, besides himself, to ever take a peek at his penis. Continue Reading
There are three moments in your adult life that are truly the most memorable: There’s graduating, moving out on your own, and finding your G-spot. Well recently, I was able to add “finding my G-Spot” to my list of accomplishments.
In the three months I’ve been a part of the Sex With Emily team, I have gone from a girl with one sex toy to a girl with a whole sex drawer. Now, this might freak some guys out, but I am lucky enough to have been blessed with an extremely open-minded boyfriend. When I come home with a new toy to try out or some “research” to do, my boyfriend is always more than supportive – In fact, sometimes I think he gets more excited than I do!
But recently I had started to get the notion that he might be feeling a little left out. Yes, our sex life has improved (check my last blog to find out how!) and yes, he gets to play with the toys too, but it seemed like I was the one having all the fun. I had multiple toys for my own pleasure, and the poor guy was stuck with just his hand to take care of him in my off-hours.
Here’s the thing about my guy: He is ALL about the gadgets. From the latest Apple products to the best razors to the top-of-the-line in E-Hookah accessories (he doesn’t even smoke..?), my boyfriend lives for new toys that can bring him enjoyment or make his life easier. Knowing this, and also keeping his super-powered libido in mind, I decided to get him something that would put a little boost of excitement into his solo sex life.
When I first opened Emily’s email that asked me to look for a vibrator, I was extremely excited and my first thought was to look through my options with my boyfriend. I went to his house and we opened the SexToy.com site, then started to have some fun. I personally have a little bit of experience with toys, so the look and feel of the toys didn’t scare me. My boyfriend, on the other hand, his experience with toys is seeing my purple dildo when I use it over skype on extended vacations. Even then, I don’t think he’s in the right mindset to take in the actual look of the toy, he’s a little more interested in the fact that it’s going inside of me. So when we opened the site, he was speechless.
Then he said something. He simply asked “Why are some of them shaped like animals?”
I told him “For girls, picking out a sex toy is like picking out a kitten. We want a new best friend.” Continue Reading
Dating online has become a favorite pastime for singles everywhere. There’s even a dating site for farmers or those of you seeking a rural partner. Wherever you are, wherever you live and whatever you’re looking for, you can find it online.
I’ve been dating online since I was 18. That was back when most online daters were still hiding in incognito mode, or at least erasing their history because the wonder of Google Chrome’s Incognito didn’t exist yet. Online dating was taboo, it was something people did behind closed doors. Today, if you’re single, you’re probably on a dating website, and you fall in the range between being very open about it and not telling anyone. If you don’t talk about it, the time has come to release yourself from the bondage of online dating secrecy. Continue Reading
Los Angeles is one of the most densely populated areas in the country. With the high cost of living and popularity of certain neighborhoods it seems almost impossible not to have roommates. So what’s the proper etiquette for having amazing sex when your partner’s roommates are definitely home? Continue Reading
I have a confession to make: I love my vibrator. I have had one trusty vibrating Bullet for three years, and I love it as much now as I did the day I got it. However, when presented with the prospect of picking a new sex toy, I knew that it was time to branch out and try something different. I had already conquered the clitoral vibrator, so it was time to move on from the C-Spot to something a little trickier to find: the G-Spot.
When it comes to intercourse, I am one of the lucky ladies who can have orgasms vaginally. However, I have never had the pleasure (haha) of experiencing a G-Spot orgasm from a non-penile source. And so, I embarked on my quest for the perfect G-Spot vibrator- a quest that ended with a twist.
My former intern Erin wrote a piece on me for the Bold Italic: “SF Sexpert Will Be on TV Tonight.” She wrote about her experiences as a Sex With Emily intern, Miss Advised, and the semantics of man juice. Continue Reading
I never thought I’d be so excited about getting a toy after the age of 11. I knew that changed when the butterflies in my stomach caused me to jump from my seat to greet the postman as he walked into the Sex With Emily office. We knew what was inside that delightful package (mind outta the gutter people). The interns and I had been agonizingly waiting for this delivery since we got the call from Jimmyjane. Continue Reading