Where is the Clitoris?
I wrote this blog because so many people are too embarrassed to just ask, where is the clitoris? People assume they should already know where it is, even though no one ever talks about it.
That is not to say people don’t talk about sex. Teenage boys can’t stop talking about porn and the hot girl in Algebra class with the budding bosom. But they don’t know the first thing about pleasing a woman.
Many people grow up boasting about their sexual abilities to cover up their confusion and sexual frustration. I might not do anything to help your sexual frustration, but at least I can get rid of your confusion about the clitoris.
Clitoris: The organ primarily responsible for female orgasm. Only a small portion of the clitoris is visible– most of it exists internally. Oh and the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) which makes the clitoris truly built for pleasure.
Clitoral Hood: The piece of skin that protects the clitoris. It is quite sensitive in and of itself for many women. A lot of women prefer indirect clitoral stimulation on the hood.
Vagina: Technically, the vaginal canal. The term “vagina” is often misused to refer to all of a woman’s sexual organs.
Labia: Vaginal lips, consisting of the outer lips— which form the outer limits of the female genitalia— and the inner lips, which run from the clitoral hood to below the vaginal opening.
The truth is, the clitoris is not a great mystery. It is not nature’s rubik’s cube.
It’s a little bump with a whole lot of pleasure emanating from it. And it’s right at your fingertips.
Take your pointer and your middle and place it on her clitoris and clitoral hood. Start moving slowly in circular motion. See how she reacts and go from there. If you have sex, keep on rubbing her clitoris while you move inside her.
Remember, many people grow up learning that female pleasure happens inside of the vagina, and it can only be found with a (large) penis. But that doesn’t mean that people have to keep thinking that way.
The clitoris is awesome. Get on board with the female orgasm.