Communication
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The Truth About The Spark in Relationships

Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back… Read more »

Ask Emily
Ask Emily

Sex and Self-Confidence

You’ve heard this one before: the sexiest quality in the world is confidence. On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m joined by my dear friend and former co-host Menace from The Woody Show, as we talk confidence, jealousy, What happens when you adore your partner, but can’t stop thinking about their high body count? Or want to have hot phone sex, but don’t know where to start? We talk through both. How about when you feel too short to find a great partner, or don’t know how to be dominant in bed? We help you think through both

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Am I The Asshole? My Partner Never Wants Sex

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation.

Ask Emily
Ask Emily

Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

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Am I The Asshole for Watching Porn Without Telling My Partner?

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the… Read more »

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Hotline Calls: Can We Fix Our Chemistry?

Sexual mismatches, squirting surprises, and shocking kinks—I tackle your wildest sex dilemmas in this Hotline Calls episode.

Breakups
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How to Be a Better Partner w/ John Kim & Vanessa Bennett

Tired of relationship drama? John Kim and Vanessa Bennett share how to ditch resentment, spark intimacy, and actually enjoy your partner.

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Initiating Sex After a Dry Spell

Orgasms, dry spells, and power shifts in the bedroom—let’s fix your biggest pleasure roadblocks.

Communication
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We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

Are you having sex for you—or putting on a show? I’ll help you ditch performative sex, get out of your head, and unlock real pleasure.

Logan Ury, Hinge
Breakups
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Dating Apps, Red Flags & Bad Habits w/ Logan Ury

Think the spark is the key to love? Think again. Logan Ury is here to bust dating myths, call out bad habits, and help you finally find your person.