Relationships & Dating

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

On today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want. 

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Sexual mismatches, squirting surprises, and shocking kinks—I tackle your wildest sex dilemmas in this Hotline Calls episode.

Is your partner the asshole in bed—or are you? I break down trust, kinks, and oral sex drama.

Struggling with erections? Never orgasmed? Want mind-blowing prostate pleasure? I’ve got you—let’s talk!

Unlock the power of your hands with expert tips on fingering, handjobs, and maximizing pleasure.

Sore throat from oral? Partner won’t try rimming? Struggling with mismatched libidos? Get the answers—no shame, just solutions.

Tired of relationship drama? John Kim and Vanessa Bennett share how to ditch resentment, spark intimacy, and actually enjoy your partner.

Orgasms, dry spells, and power shifts in the bedroom—let’s fix your biggest pleasure roadblocks.