Sex Tips & Advice

On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it?

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation.

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

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Sexual mismatches, squirting surprises, and shocking kinks—I tackle your wildest sex dilemmas in this Hotline Calls episode.

Is your partner the asshole in bed—or are you? I break down trust, kinks, and oral sex drama.

Struggling with erections? Never orgasmed? Want mind-blowing prostate pleasure? I’ve got you—let’s talk!

Unlock the power of your hands with expert tips on fingering, handjobs, and maximizing pleasure.

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