Looking for a position that brings the heat and the intimacy? Say hello to Flat Iron- a sultry twist on rear-entry that delivers deep penetration, intense closeness, and endless ways to play. Whether you’re craving that skin-to-skin connection, exploring power dynamics, or adding toys to the mix, this one’s a bedroom game-changer.

So, What Is the Flat Iron Position?

Think: compressed, connected, and seriously steamy. The receiving partner lies face down—legs together or slightly parted—while the penetrating partner aligns their body on top, chest to back, like a hot iron pressing down (hence the name). 

The result? Full-body contact that feels both grounding and erotic, with the kind of depth that makes you say, “Don’t stop.”

It’s ideal for those craving pressure, intimacy, or a little domination. And thanks to the built-in control this position allows, it’s also perfect for anal play, edging, or leveling up your toy game.

How to Do It

• The receiving partner lies face down, hips slightly elevated.
• The penetrating partner climbs on top, legs straddling or between their partner’s, aligning bodies closely.
• Go for full bodyweight if you’re both into pressure—or hold yourself up slightly for a slower, grindier rhythm.
• Want to last longer? Slow your breath. Want to come faster? Add vibration (more on that below).

Ways to Turn Up the Heat

1. Lube Is Essential

Flat Iron is all about friction—in the best way. Make it smoother (and sexier) with a generous dose of lube.

• Silicone-based lubes = long-lasting, silky-smooth glide
• Water-based lubes = safe with silicone toys

No shame in reapplying—just think of it as part of the foreplay.

2. Use a Pillow for a Lift-Off

Tucking a pillow (or a firm sex wedge) under the receiving partner’s hips changes the angle and adds comfort.
Bonus: It creates a tighter, deeper fit and takes pressure off the lower back.

3. Touch Everything

From the backs of knees to inner thighs and spine—Flat Iron leaves so much skin exposed. Use your hands, mouth, or a toy to stimulate overlooked erogenous zones. Try a slim bullet vibe between bodies to tease the clitoris or nipples while you move together.

4. Bring in the Toys—Especially Anal

This position is prime for double the pleasure. Whether you’re brand-new to anal or looking to amplify intensity, LELO’s Soraya Beads were made for this.

These luxe, body-safe beads gradually increase in size and feature LELO’s signature Bow-Motion™ technology – a rhythmic, wave-like pulse that mimics a partner’s thrust. Add to that 8 customizable vibration settings and you’ve got a toy that builds arousal exactly how you like it, whether you’re using it as a warm-up or wearing it during penetration for that extra layer of fullness and pressure.

Made from silky-soft, medical-grade silicone and designed with a flexible base that moves with your body, they’re surprisingly comfortable to wear while you play.

Curious to try? Use code EMILY15 for 15% off at lelo.com.

5. Explore Power Dynamics

Flat Iron naturally sets the scene for a little power play—with the receiving partner in a submissive position and the penetrating partner fully in control.

Think: soft restraints, dirty talk, spanking, or hair pulling—all depending on your vibe. Want to dominate with a whisper? Try murmuring praise, commands, or fantasies right into their ear.

Reminder: Consent is always sexy. Establish boundaries, safe words, and check-ins before play begins. When trust is the foundation, the pleasure can go even deeper.