Ask Emily
Ask Emily

Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

BDSM & Kinks
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Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes

I answer your questions about picking up new sex skills. From finding others to bring into your play, to learning how to squirt on your own.

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Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips

It’s the season of love – self love! I share the benefits of solo sex, from understanding your body to giving serious pleasure.

BDSM & Kinks
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Orgasms, Explained.

What’s actually happening in your body when you have an orgasm? I explain how to have different kinds of orgasms, like G-spot and dry orgasms.

BDSM & Kinks
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Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal?

Can you only orgasm one way? Wondering if your kink is normal? I answer your most personal sex & relationship questions LIVE today.

BDSM & Kinks
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Hotline Calls: Why Masturbate When I Can Have Sex?

How do you tell your partner you want to be humiliated in the bedroom? Is masturbating with a cam girl considered cheating? Let’s get into it.

Body
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Hotline Calls: I Saw My Partner’s Porn History

From telling casual partners you’re sleeping with other people, to discussing your partner’s porn history, I answer these juicy Hotline calls.

Anal Play
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Hotline Calls: My Partner’s Into Bad Boys & I’m the “Nice Guy”

The Sex With Emily Hotline is open, and we’re talking disappearing erections, prostate massages, and so much more.

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Fingering & Handjobs: The Art of Hand Play

Today, I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a handjob, and use your hands with sexual intention.

Communication
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Hotline Calls: How Do I Initiate Sex After a Dry Spell?

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered!