Friends WIth Benefits

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

On today’s throwback episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.

I answer your questions about picking up new sex skills. From finding others to bring into your play, to learning how to squirt on your own.

From telling casual partners you’re sleeping with other people, to discussing your partner’s porn history, I answer these juicy Hotline calls.

Friends with benefits is completely valid relationship model, but it’s not for everyone. I help you get clear on whether FWB is right for you.

The key is knowing yourself.

If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be just what the doctor ordered.

How to regain confidence, important questions to ask yourself before “jumping back out there,” and how to find a partner who’s right for you.

Getting what you want in the bedroom isn’t always as easy as we’d like it to… Read more »

On today’s show Emily is joined by sex educators and toy aficionados April Lampert and Amy… Read more »