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masturbatory blog sex with emilyWe all love to play with ourselves. In fact, masturbation is probably one of humankind’s most popular approaches to pleasure. It’s cheap, good for you, and pretty easy to pull off (so to speak). But solo sexual stimulation has always lived in the shadow of the “real thing.” 

Sadly, masturbation is widely regarded as partnered sex’s less talented understudy… A reluctant last resort. A mere masturbatory means to an end.

Although it still gets you from point “A” to point “O” in the end, the ensuing orgasm has a tendency to feel lackluster without someone to co-opt coaxing it out of you. But it doesn’t have to! Continue Reading

songs blog sex with emilyNSYNC versus Backstreet Boys, Star Wars versus Star Trek, the dress was blue and black versus white and gold: these are the types of debates that’ll go down in the history books. But alongside those also comes one of the hottest topics of all…

Music or no music during sex?

If you have a solid sex song medley put together, it really can turn up the heat. So, we’ve put together a playlist of a few noteworthy jams that can totally seal the deal.

(And if it’s not so much your thing, then be prepared for some major inspo that just may change your mind!)

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BathSexyDear Emily,

I have a problem with masturbation — I can’t do it.

It’s not that I’m a prude about masturbation. Believe me, I have tried time and time again! I know what I’m supposed to do and I get how to do it, I’ve masturbated in front of a partner before and it was GREAT. But when it’s me by myself, I just can’t seem to get into it or even get to a place where it feels good. Since I’m doing the actual touching part the right way, I know it has to be something about my mindset. What am I doing wrong?

How can I help myself get in the mood for masturbation?

Sincerely,
Solo Sex Struggles

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Hi Emily,

I have a question regarding sex with my fiancé. We really only have sex on the weekends, maybe once or twice on Saturday or on Sunday morning. He works long hours and is often very tired after work, and he has stated on multiple occasions that he doesn’t feel like having sex when he is tired. Personally, I would love to be getting busy more often, but I always end up feeling like he’s just not into it.

Recently I brought up these feelings to him and he admitted that he is often too tired to initiate sex, but he wouldn’t turn me down if I got things started. He has always been the initiator in our relationship, so I know it’s my turn to make the first move, but I’m having trouble getting things started. How can I get better at initiating sex?

Thanks,
Sarah


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IMG_6337Masturbation Month marches on and the celebration continues in this Sex With Emily podcast! Hear some eye-opening self-love statistics, and interesting facts about whackin’ it. Don’t you want to pleasure yourself more efficiently? Whether you’re a man, a woman, or a couple, get all the hot tips you’ll need to have a successful Masturbation May.

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