The hottest gifts this year are not just things, they’re experiences.

Moments that help you slow down, feel your body, and actually enjoy your pleasure.

This guide is all about multi-sensory gifts that nourish your mind, body, and sex life. Think: tools for embodiment, toys for exploration, rituals for self-love, and upgrades for the partner who deserves a little extra attention.

Whether you’re shopping for yourself, a lover, or your favorite pleasure-seeker, you’ll find something here that supports connection, confidence, and seriously good sex. Each gift falls within the five pillars of Sexual Intelligence—Embodiment, Health, Self-Knowledge, Self- Acceptance, and Collaboration—so you can choose based on what you want to deepen in your intimate life.

Embodiment

For grounding, presence and feeling at home in your body.

LELO SONA 3

The SONA 3 uses sonic waves to stimulate the entire clitoral network, not just the surface. The sensations are deep and pulsing, building gradually so you can linger in pleasure instead of racing to the finish line. It is designed for people who want to savor every second, explore new sensations and discover just how expansive clitoral pleasure can be. Pair it with your favorite lube, a slow playlist and enjoy the ride.

Use  EMILY20 for stackable 20% on top of ongoing sales!

Common Confidential Massage Butter

Common Confidential Massage Butter takes your foreplay up a notch. With a smooth, long-lasting texture and clean, nature-inspired ingredients, it is perfect for everything from sensual neck rubs to full-body massages.Because it is free from harsh chemicals, you get to focus on the fun, not the friction. Slather it on, slow things down, and let touch become its own kind of conversation.

Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off! 

Insight Timer

Pleasure begins with presence, and Insight Timer is one of the best tools for helping your mind and body reconnect. With thousands of free meditations, breathwork sessions and mindfulness practices, it supports the calm, grounding and emotional awareness that make intimacy more fulfilling. It feels like a true wellness space, not another social feed. You are invited to slow down, tune in and build a deeper sense of purpose. When you show up for yourself this way, every part of your life, including your pleasure, tends to get better.

Somatic Stress Release™ with Dr. Scott Lyons

Give the gift of real relaxation, the kind that starts in the nervous system. Somatic Stress Release™ is a live online training that teaches you how to recognize stress patterns in your body and move them toward ease. Dr. Scott Lyons guides you through somatic practices that help you feel more grounded, more connected and more open to pleasure. It is a transformative way to support emotional wellbeing and deepen your mind-body connection long after the holidays are over.

199X Candles

199X feels like stepping into a memory you did not know you missed. Each candle is its own little world, a blend of scent and nostalgia that lands the way an old love letter or favorite cassette track once did. These fragrances invite you to slow down, savor the moment and reconnect with something deeper in yourself. Light one when you want to feel cozy, reflective or a little romantic. With 199X, scent becomes a ritual that brings you home to you.

Cornbread Hemp

Cornbread is all about helping your body settle so you can actually feel present in it. Their premium hemp products support relaxation, deeper sleep and that delicious feeling of “I can finally exhale.” When your nervous system softens, it becomes easier to tune in, connect and experience pleasure more fully. It is a simple, natural addition to any wellness ritual that helps you drop into your body and stay there.

Health

For supporting the body that carries all that pleasure.

Bathmate Hydro Pump

Give the gift of confidence. Bathmate’s premium hydro pump uses safe, consistent water pressure to support stronger, harder and more reliable erections, using your daily shower as the training ground. With high-quality engineering and years of expertise behind it, Bathmate is built to last and designed to help penis owners feel proud of their performance. It is easy to use, discreet, and turns sexual wellness into a simple, private ritual. Because what you have is already good. Bathmate just helps make it great.

HigherDOSE Infrared Sauna Blanket

HigherDOSE’s infrared sauna blanket is the ultimate at-home reset. Slip inside to support gentle detox, melt muscle and joint tension and emerge feeling lighter, calmer and more energized. Amethyst and tourmaline are woven into the blanket to help elevate mood, while the heat boosts circulation, skin glow and collagen. Plug in, wrap up and let your whole body drift into a deeply restorative sweat session.

V-Health Vaginal Rejuvenation Gel

Think of this as a little love note to your vagina. V-Health Vaginal Rejuvenation Gel supports hydration, comfort and overall vaginal wellness so you can feel more at ease in your body and more connected to pleasure. It helps soothe dryness, restore balance and keep your most intimate tissues feeling supple and supported. When everything feels nourished and cared for, intimacy feels easier and more enjoyable.

Use code EMILY10 for 10% off.

IM8 Daily Ultimate Essentials

IM8 is your new morning love language. Co-founded by David Beckham and crafted with Mayo Clinic and NASA experts, this daily drink delivers 92 nutrients in one easy ritual.

Think whole-body nourishment that leaves you feeling energized, supported and ready for anything. When you feel good from the inside out, it is much easier to be present, playful and tuned in to pleasure throughout your day.

Kroma Wellness Beauty Matcha Latte

Kroma’s Beauty Matcha Latte turns your morning drink into a mini ritual. It delivers calm, steady energy and is packed with beauty-supporting antioxidants that help skin look bright and nourished. It is delicious, uplifting and the perfect gift for anyone who wants their daily routine to feel more luxurious and intentional. Self-knowledge often starts with simple rituals, and this one tastes incredible.

Self-Knowledge

For getting curious about what turns you on and lights you up. 

Magic Wand Mini

Small in size, legendary in power. The Magic Wand Mini delivers the deep, rumbly vibration people love from the original, all in a compact, travel-friendly design.

With multiple speeds, a flexible head and that unmistakable Magic Wand oomph, it is ideal for clitoral orgasms, body massage and everything in between. A perennial favorite for good reason: it is versatile, powerful and endlessly giftable.

Je Joue Hera Flex Rabbit Vibrator

The Hera Flex Rabbit Vibrator from Je Joue is a worldwide bestseller for a reason. Its fully customizable shaft lets you shape it for precise G-spot massage that fits your unique body. The extra-wide clitoral thumb gives more contact and more intensity, while Je Joue’s signature ultra-low-frequency vibrations travel deeper into the body for mind-blowing, full-body blended orgasms. This is for the person who wants it all. Use code EMILY20 for 20% off.

SmartSX

SmartSX is your private space to explore pleasure, confidence and intimacy without shame. With exclusive workshops, science-backed tools and guided practices, it supports you in understanding your desires, your boundaries and your body. It is like having a sex-positive toolkit in your pocket, helping you feel more informed, more empowered and more connected to your erotic self.

Self- Acceptance 

Caddis Readers

Caddis is the anti anti-aging brand, and their readers make embracing exactly where you are in life feel powerful instead of pressured. No “50 is the new 40,” no pretending, just stylish frames that celebrate the age you are today. These modern readers turn acceptance into confidence and make clear vision feel sexy and unapologetically real. Aging is inevitable, feeling ashamed about it is not.

Oura Ring 

It’s like having a wellness whisperer on your finger. It tracks your sleep, stress and recovery so you can understand what your body actually needs to feel good, connected and ready for pleasure. When you know how your body is functioning beneath the surface, you can support it with more intention.

Collaboration

For partnered pleasure, play and intimacy.

Promescent Delay Spray

Promescent is like a little intimacy upgrade in a bottle. The Delay Spray helps keep pleasure going without numbing you out, so you can stay present and enjoy the ride.

It is easy to apply, fast-absorbing and designed to help penis owners last longer while still feeling sensation. Great for couples who want more time to play, explore and orgasm together.

LELO F2S™

Created for thrill-seekers and tech lovers, the F2S™ is the next generation of penis stimulation and stamina training. This automatic masturbator combines LELO’s signature technology with a sleek, futuristic design. It covers the entire erogenous area with deep, penetrating vibrations that adapt to your shape and rhythm, and you can even track performance through an app. Best for penis owners who love data, powerful sensations and total control over intensity.

Use  EMILY20 for stackable 20% on top of ongoing sales!

Crave Leather Handcuffs

Crave’s new leather handcuffs are the perfect mix of classy and kinky. Soft, strong and beautifully made, they invite you to explore trust, surrender and playful restraint without feeling intimidating.

These cuffs turn an everyday encounter into a sensual adventure. Pair with a safeword, lots of communication and watch your holiday heat level rise.

Arya

Give the gift of deeper connection. Arya’s monthly membership delivers a brand-new guided scene designed to help you explore desire and intimacy together as a couple.

Each experience includes written guidance, educational videos and premium items that arrive right in your box to bring the scene to life. You also get access to a personal concierge who can answer questions and support you every step of the way. This is not just a gift, it is an ongoing intimacy ritual

Whether you are shopping for yourself or someone you love, remember: pleasure is not a luxury, it is part of your wellbeing. Choose the gifts that help you feel present, supported and turned on by your own life.