In this captivating episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily welcomes back adult film legend and author Joanna Angel to discuss her brilliant new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel “Club 42.” From her transformative days as a stripper to building a porn empire, Joanna shares how embracing her sexuality became the foundation of her confidence and success.
We dive into Joanna’s fascinating journey of sexual self-discovery, exploring how stripping taught her to embrace her femininity, develop unshakeable confidence, and connect authentically with others. Her new book takes readers on multiple erotic adventures through a strip club setting, allowing you to choose your own path through various sexual scenarios—from hooking up with fellow dancers to exploring BDSM and everything in between.
This episode is packed with practical advice on dirty talk, sexting, and vocal expression during intimacy. Joanna breaks down why authentic communication is crucial for great sex, how to move beyond performative sounds influenced by porn, and why being genuinely expressive enhances pleasure for everyone involved. We also explore her weakness for “band guys” and how sexual attraction doesn’t always align with our feminist ideals.
Key Topics Covered:
How stripping transformed Joanna’s confidence and sexuality
The art of choose-your-own-adventure erotica
Dirty talk vs. sexting: different skills for different situations
Moving beyond porn-influenced sexual performance
Why authentic vocalization enhances pleasure
Sexual confidence and embracing your desires
The psychology behind attraction to “bad boys”
Creating inclusive, diverse sexual narratives
Joanna’s refreshing honesty about sexuality, combined with her literary talents, offers listeners both inspiration and practical tools for expanding their own sexual adventures. Whether you’re looking to spice up your relationship or explore new fantasies, this episode celebrates the power of choice, authenticity, and unapologetic pleasure.
Show Notes:
00:00 – Introduction and Joanna’s Background
1:52 – Club 42: Choose Your Own Adventure Erotica
3:06 – From Stripping to Porn: Finding Sexual Confidence
5:01 – Building Sexual Confidence Outside the Bedroom
7:32 – Club 42 Book Details and Diverse Sexual Scenarios
8:58 – The Rise of Dirty Talk and Sexting During Pandemic
10:36 – Dirty Talk Masterclass: Getting Started
12:08 – Being Descriptive vs. Generic in Sexual Communication
14:27 – Sexting Techniques and Building Anticipation
16:04 – Relationship Dynamics and Sexual Communication
17:32 – Listener Q&A: Overcoming Dirty Talk Nervousness
19:10 – Starting with Moaning and Vocal Expression
20:45 – Sexting vs. In-the-Moment Dirty Talk
21:30 – Creating Your Own Erotic Stories Through Sexting
This episode reminds us that great sex starts with knowing yourself, embracing your desires, and having the confidence to ask for what you want—whether in the bedroom or on the page.
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