Attention people with vulvas, and those who love to please them: it’s time to learn about A-spot orgasms.
A very deep and pleasurable orgasm, A-spot O’s require a specific form of stimulation. Here’s what you need to know to experience one.
What is the A-spot?
Another sensitive, sexual area on the inside of the vagina, just like the G-spot. Unlike the G-spot, the A-spot is located higher up inside.
The A-spot is about 4 inches inside the vagina on the front wall, behind the bladder and below the cervix.
“A” stands for anterior fornix, a nerve cluster area inside the internal clitoral network.
Why does A-spot stimulation feel good?
It all goes back to the clitoris, which is actually a very large organ mostly inside the body.
For years, we were led to believe that the clitoris was solely the tiny, external nub protruding from the top of the labia. Not so. That nub connects to the entire clitoris (AKA the internal clitoral network), which you cannot see.
People with vulvas: did you know you possessed this? If not, it’s the key to “internal” orgasms, the ones that happen more from penetrative sex and insertion toys.
The A-spot is one of those places that might feel funny to stimulate at first, because it’s so close to the cervix. Think “up to the hilt”-type sex, where the penis or toy is in deep. But once the body gets used to the sensation, this funny feeling can quickly turn into immense pleasure and a deep, emotional release when you orgasm.
Bonus: once the A-spot orgasm is unlocked, it can lead to more orgasms during penetrative sex! Just another reason it’s an ace erogenous zone, and a great one for you to train.
How can I have an A-spot orgasm?
The A-spot is so deep inside that your fingers might not be able to reach it. So I’m going to recommend you use a toy that both reaches the spot, and provides the stimulation necessary to give you an A-spot orgasm.
LELO has a new *A-spot toy* called the ENIGMA Double Sonic. It was designed precisely for this type of orgasm. As a triple stimulation toy, it uses sonic waves to stimulate your clitoral nub, and a long insertion tail that vibes on your G-spot (heavenly). But the tail also features a sonic tip, and these waves stimulate the deep, hard to reach A-spot.
To use the ENIGMA Double Sonic (or a toy like it) for A-spot orgasm, try these steps:
- Apply abundant lube to your vulva and the toy.
- Masturbate slowly, letting your blood flow build.
- Feel free to focus on just the clitoris first, and have an orgasm there to engorge the vulva.
- Mindfully insert the toy, starting at the lowest speed.
- As your body acclimates, breathe deeply. Resist the urge to go to the highest setting all at once; the body likes a slow build.
- If you feel stimulation that seems like it’s in the center of your body – nearly touching your cervix – you’re in the right spot. Stay here with steady, pulsing movement.
- It may take a few tries before you experience a full-on A-spot orgasm. That’s OK! Keep trying. You’re teaching your body a new skill, and it might require a few sessions before this orgasm can release.
What are the benefits of A-spot stimulation?
It can give you a new type of orgasm for one! But A-spot stimulation is also known to:
- Boost vaginal lubrication
- Increase the success rate of reaching internal orgasm
- Create more pleasurable intercourse
- Improve vaginal blood flow
What’s not to love?
While an A-spot orgasm might seem more advanced than your everyday O, I promise that anyone with a vulva can experience it. It just requires the right tools and a little bit of patience, while your body gets used to this type of stimulation.
Have you ever had an A-spot orgasm before? Did you see stars? Come find me on Instagram @sexwithemily and tell me how you did it!
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