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Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

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Best Of: Conscious, Casual Sex

On today’s throwback episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.

BDSM & Kinks
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Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes

I answer your questions about picking up new sex skills. From finding others to bring into your play, to learning how to squirt on your own.

Body
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Queefing, Lost Erections & Other Awkward Sex Probs

Awkward sex: it happens! From queefing to lost erections, I help you turn these awkward moments into erotic opportunities.

Body
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Hotline Calls: I Saw My Partner’s Porn History

From telling casual partners you’re sleeping with other people, to discussing your partner’s porn history, I answer these juicy Hotline calls.

Communication
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Best Of: Are You Benefitting from Your Friends With Benefits?

Friends with benefits is completely valid relationship model, but it’s not for everyone. I help you get clear on whether FWB is right for you.

Couple cuddling on bed
Dating
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Is Casual Sex Right For You?

The key is knowing yourself.

Communication
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Friends With Benefits: A Guide

If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be just what the doctor ordered.

Anal Play
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Hard at Work: All About the Penis

On today’s show, Emily’s giving you all the things you need to know about the penis… Read more »

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Orgasm More with Your Pelvic Floor

On today’s show, Emily’s talking about the most important sexercise you’re not doing yet and helping… Read more »