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Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex

Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards — is it a medical condition or underlying shame?

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Am I The Asshole? Is It Cheating If We Were on a Break?

Is your partner the asshole in bed—or are you? I break down trust, kinks, and oral sex drama.

Anal Play
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Hotline Calls: How to Fantasize Together

Struggling with erections? Never orgasmed? Want mind-blowing prostate pleasure? I’ve got you—let’s talk!

Explore & Play
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Hotline Calls: Strip Clubs & Sex Boundaries

Sore throat from oral? Partner won’t try rimming? Struggling with mismatched libidos? Get the answers—no shame, just solutions.

Culture
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Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning… Read more »

Body
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Why Gut Health is Sexy w/ Tina Anderson

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly’s bacteria and your… Read more »

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Communicate Your Sexual Needs

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really… Read more »

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AITA For Being Pushy About My Fantasies?

Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, I’m… Read more »

Illustration of the Kivin Method from "Smart Sex" in a burnt orange circle on a beige background.
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How to Do the Kivin Method

Ready to give your partner a twist on oral?

Communication
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Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life

Do you have a growth mindset around your sex life? I help you ID obstacles to your sexuality and figure out solutions for self-exploration.