Locktober: How to Do Chastity Play Safely

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica answer listener questions covering intimate challenges from anal play to mismatched libidos.

The episode addresses a woman whose boyfriend wants to try receiving anal rimming but can’t relax into it, examining masculinity myths around pleasure. They cover penis cage safety during chastity play and what to watch for during extended use. Listeners also hear from a woman whose partner never initiates sex despite therapy, someone experiencing numbness during oral sex, and a recently divorced woman struggling to reclaim her sex drive.

Throughout, Emily emphasizes communication outside the bedroom, understanding our bodies’ responses, and reclaiming sexuality as something we own for ourselves, not something tied exclusively to our partners.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction
1:15 – Helping Your Partner Feel Comfortable with Anal Play
6:38 – Penis Cage Safety & Chastity Play Guidelines
13:49 – When Your Partner Never Initiates Sex
18:45 – Numbness & Tingling During Oral Sex Explained
23:07 – Reclaiming Your Sex Drive After Divorce

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