The Hottest

I’m identifying different types of performance anxiety so that you can show up more confident and relaxed for sex.

I share what to do if you’ve never had an orgasm, tricks for elevating your orgasms, and unexpected places to climax (nipplegasms, anyone?).

Getting in the mood may just be as simple as adding a little something to your go-to sexy-time routine.

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered!

Friends with benefits is completely valid relationship model, but it’s not for everyone. I help you get clear on whether FWB is right for you.

Don’t let the box instructions stop you from experimenting. Chances are, your current sex toys (or future sex toys) have surprise talents. 

Understanding your pelvic floor and the steps to achieve the top 3 sex goals of vulva owners: internal orgasms, squirting, and multiple orgasms.

From swearing off penetrative sex to quitting playing games, Violet Benson shares how she creates the sex life that truly work for her.

Let’s begin in the most beginner-friendly way possible: by experimenting on yourself.

I help callers work through their fears around sex: “Am I peeing or squirting?” “Will my partner fall in love with the third in a threesome?”